How come I as a bi curious guy only get caught up with straight guys that are stuck in my same boat. I just want a bud I can mess with while I have a girlfriend and not have it be a big deal . The thing is I don't like openly gay men but everytime I feeel like I make a friend that is like me they won't make a move but just send mix messages. I don't get it and if someone is openly gay I have no actraction only with guys I get vibes are like me guys with girlfriends but there are these flortations or moves yet neither of us make moves ... Is it just me kinda only liking straight guys or guys like me to scared to make a move? Any stories or thoughts or suggestions?