I did enjoy seeing a slanted question and then of course the follow pile on. This is how you’re going to make people see your side?
From my perspective someone who is conservative, the Republicans sucks and the democrats blow. But a few thoughts.
Do conservatives care about other people? Of course which is why I give to charity and volunteer. I just don’t believe that it should be the government’s job, I don’t believe it’s compassion when it is forced compassion. I don’t agree with evangelicals who think they’re holy and crap because I have seen too many mega churches where the donations don’t go to helping people.
I believe the government is responsible for equality of opportunity however not equality of outcome. Opportunity is taking away hurdles of societal structure. Hiring practices which are discrimination in nature comes to mind. Equality of outcome, which is disagree with is saying that the society is obligated to ensure someone is successful and if need be take an opportunity away from one person to give to another in the guise of fairness.
What you are describing and suggesting here is the philosophy of the ruling classes in late 19th century Europe, especially in the UK, the outcomes were not pretty. Look at any societal literature depicting working class life and you'll see exactly why. Charles Dickens, Thomas Hardy, Emile Zola etc. They relied heavily on philanthropists and the results were grinding poverty, an average working class life expectancy of 29 years old, overcrowded slums, rampant disease and work houses.