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It being.a secret relationship could be a huge problem. How can you love someone when you dont love yourself?
It being.a secret relationship could be a huge problem. How can you love someone when you dont love yourself?
Three years and counting suggest a great relationship is building. Be cautious with the urge to come out. Working a relationship together while you both struggle not to be judged by others may be part of what is making you (and your relationship) strong. One of these days you two might look back and take joy in having done it “your way” without compromising for the crowd.
Three years and counting suggest a great relationship is building. Be cautious with the urge to come out. Working a relationship together while you both struggle not to be judged by others may be part of what is making you (and your relationship) strong. One of these days you two might look back and take joy in having done it “your way” without compromising for the crowd.
And that is a reason why I don't want to come out. Because we don't put our business of our relationship on social media, like you see all the time on Facebook and others. I agree with you that's our relationship is stronger that way.
Of course you will...I think most of us have that memory of a love that didn't work out or that got away. Its not a gay thing...its a life thing my man. I am in a long term committed relationship..but there is a guy from my past that I dated for 2 years that didnt work out that I think of constantly and I always will. Time heals and it will turn it from painful to sort of this melancholy memory. Dude everyone of my siblings has that and most of my friends. "Not every love story is an epic novel...some are short stories..but doesn't make them any less filled with love" ( ok cheesy movie line but it has validity)I think i'll miss him every day for the rest of my life.
I think I put the title as this because it was out of anger and frustration... thank you everyone
I think i'll miss him every day for the rest of my life.
I'm a gay male, and am currently in my 20th year with the same guy. So, there ya go.It seems like gay guys are INCAPIABLE of being in a real, long term relationship.
He broke up with me, it shattered my world into a million pieces. I was the happiest I had ever been with him. The pain of it all is almost unbearable.
Right now I feel like I am at Rock Bottom, and feel like I will never find anyone for the rest of my life.
I've been where you are, many times. It's rough. For some people, it doesn't get better. Sometimes you just don't connect, or you can't trust anymore, or you just don't feel the spark. Lots of people, gay and straight, will live the rest of their lives without a significant other. That's where I've ended up. I'm not seeking to date anyone anymore, I don't want more drama, I don't want that shattered feeling anymore, and maybe that's ok. Chances are pretty good that you won't be with one person for the rest of your life until you die. I'd suggest you get your head around that as an ok thing, and not a terrible thing. You can build a diversified portfolio of friends and support rather than just a single supporting partner. It's cool to keep your heart open, but don't beat yourself up if it doesn't happen. Be strong, be careful, be good to yourself, and find ways to be happy by yourself.
What a depressing post. I will find that one for me forever.
I understand this. I am ready to. But I wanted to wait until I found the one for me. I know when I find the one for me, I want to tell them. It will add credibility to it. I was ready to tell them about this guy.
I think I put the title as this because it was out of anger and frustration... thank you everyone