Why are guys so fucking soft? I like being fucked hard

[Drifterwood]

There's a significant difference between hard fucking and rough fucking imo. Hard fucking is easy, but I find that I do have to get my head around rough fucking, and then not have my head around it, if you know what I mean. I really do have to let go, not give a shit about whether you get hurt, and if you did, I wouldn't even notice it. I haven't met many women who are really into the genuinely rough stuff.

PS - if you want a good hard fucking, don't just ask for it, get on all fours stick your ass in the air and tell us to fuck you hard.

Works for me.

 

[Gisella]

no, it's not just about communication.

lots of men have a huge mental block which prevents them

bingo!..prevents them for many..many things..

...prevents them to ask for directions..being USA the country in the world with most cars on the roads, males drivers getting lost because internal make up of some sorts...it is not surprising the other growing blocks fenomena is spotted right here and now..yep!

Many males are just stubborn, reggarding not listen for directions..any directions. For this motive you can find harding fucking behaviours still, au naturalle among those men who have no easy transportantions, have to cut their trails in the jungles they live in..yep!..the old not taking for granted and survival for real stuff (not tv series) etc..many civilized, profissional males lost their cool animales inside..its is kind of silly because those civilized males are the ones who most consume all kinds of hardcore porn also..they might be those who have huge fuck bang bang in the asses of men and women (porn acting fantasies) in dvds and movie files ..might be the ones "addicted" to masturbation the easy way to realease whatever is building up and relax etc (me too). But the truth is:..."they lost that fucking feeling" (some together with that loving feeling also..)..the original fucking program that came with them from "factory"...some men when you talk about the subect became all defensive start blame women as wanting to be raped, abused..making no sense at all.
Now..upgrading them, or recycling..eka/ewww, on top of all kind of crap layers they got into to.. including viruses and stuff (like inside problematic machines etcs) will not work people...they must find themselves again..rediscover them all over again...and run free (like Elsa the lioness but the Lion version of it)..good luck!!!

Who knew it..there would come a day some men would have not a clue how to fuck right...well..that is what come to it but there is light at the end of the tunnel.!


LOLOLOLOL...

my 10 cents theory and I rest my case...you're all very welcome. xo

:smile:

 

[Notthe7]

It is all because of the laws and the enforcement of them. All it has to take in some states is a slight bruise and you can be charged with date/spouse rape. It is one of those 101 things guys will never understand about the females in the world.

I have a huge issue with what you said: #1 most sexual assault and rape goes unreported. Look it up. Secondly, violence in sexuality has become normalized. Rape and sex are thin lines now a days. But to accuse women of running out in groups and screaming rape is completely fucking factually wrong.

 

[139189]

I love to pound only when my girlfriend is in the mood for it. I don't like to cause her pain, but when she's drunk she'll actually initiate the rougher sex which is a signal for me to take over and pound away

 

[139189]

bingo!..prevents them for many..many things..

...prevents them to ask for directions..being USA the country in the world with most cars on the roads, males drivers getting lost because internal make up of some sorts...it is not surprising the other growing blocks fenomena is spotted right here and now..yep!

Many males are just stubborn, reggarding not listen for directions..any directions. For this motive you can find harding fucking behaviours still, au naturalle among those men who have no easy transportantions, have to cut their trails in the jungles they live in..yep!..the old not taking for granted and survival for real stuff (not tv series) etc..many civilized, profissional males lost their cool animales inside..its is kind of silly because those civilized males are the ones who most consume all kinds of hardcore porn also..they might be those who have huge fuck bang bang in the asses of men and women (porn acting fantasies) in dvds and movie files ..might be the ones "addicted" to masturbation the easy way to realease whatever is building up and relax etc (me too). But the truth is:..."they lost that fucking feeling" (some together with that loving feeling also..)..the original fucking program that came with them from "factory"...some men when you talk about the subect became all defensive start blame women as wanting to be raped, abused..making no sense at all.
Now..upgrading them, or recycling..eka/ewww, on top of all kind of crap layers they got into to.. including viruses and stuff (like inside problematic machines etcs) will not work people...they must find themselves again..rediscover them all over again...and run free (like Elsa the lioness but the Lion version of it)..good luck!!!

Who knew it..there would come a day some men would have not a clue how to fuck right...well..that is what come to it but there is light at the end of the tunnel.!


LOLOLOLOL...

my 10 cents theory and I rest my case...you're all very welcome. xo

:smile:

I don't care about asking for directions. You're referring to the hot-headed MANS MAN testosterone fest, where instead of trying to work out issues with themselves and their significant others, they go and work on their car? And then when a guy says they talk their problems out, the aforementioned mans man calls the guy a pussy? Fuck those guys

 

[Mule]

If your lover doesn't listen to what you want, it's his fault.

But...

If he doesn't know what you want, it's your fault.

 

[Artyg]

Are your lovers hung?
Maybe they are used to that women doesn't want hard sex when you're hung.
Tell them that you can take it even if they're big..

 

[Hockeytiger]

#1) You must communicate your desires. Sometimes that's easier said than done as guys aren't always the best listeners.

#2) Talk to him about it, even afterwards. Be explicit in that you really want him to let go. He really needs to understand that. If he's a good lover he'll learn to adapt.

Personally, it took me a little while to be comfortable with the fact that I could let loose with my wife and that sometimes she really wanted me to rip her clothes off, carry her off to bed, be not just dominant, but also a little rough with her too.

The first time I had sex with my first girlfriend I was too rough and I hurt her. I felt like crap about it. That colored my view from then on. From my perspective women are smaller and weaker. I don't mean that to be insulting in any way, but I really don't get off on hurting a woman. I don't need to hurt her to know that I am physically more powerful than her. The psychological pain of knowing I've hurt a woman sexually lasts a hell of a lot longer than any sexual high. Thus, I learned to hold back some.

That all being said, I want to be the best lover I can. Thus I learned to adapt to satisfy my wife's sexual desires. But it took a little time, and she was very patient with me (a wonderful feminine trait), which made her even more desirable and attractive to me.

Being a great lover to someone isn't something you are. it is something you learn with each new lover.

 

[dolfette]

It is all because of the laws and the enforcement of them. All it has to take in some states is a slight bruise and you can be charged with date/spouse rape. It is one of those 101 things guys will never understand about the females in the world.

what a pile of shit.
one night stands might have that paranoia,
but lovers should know her well enough to know better.

 

[Drifterwood]

but lovers should know her well enough to know better.

And vice versa Dolfie, a one night stand Asian woman fucked me so hard recently, she left my groin bruised and my heart singing.

 

[bgr_thn_avrg]

Yeah just tell them how you them to fuck you. Unless you have sex with telepaths, then they should just be able to "know"

 

[trackdude]

rape is difficult to prove especially if she has a history of casual sex you sissies.

Yeah! were they actually serious about that? Worrying about a rape conviction is very near the last thing on my mind when I'm going at it, but then again I do like pornstar hard fucking.

 

[Wrist_thick10]

Guys always try to be nice and take things slow. I don't want to be fucked slow. I like getting my ass pounded. I like pain. I want my legs lifted up behind my head . Guys dont like to do this. Why is it so hard to find guys to give me a descent fuck? Do any other women have this problem? I've had enough of fucking wimps.....im sorry if i seems kinda mean but this shit is getting crazy

I understand. My g/f is like that too. She just likes to get pounded..hard. No foreplay. She likes it fast, hard, and deep. When I first met her she told me she likes sexual pain. I told her "you came to the right place." A big dick can provide the pain you need. Don't listen to that stuff about "its not the size of the ship, but it's the motion of the ocean." Just remember, you can't cross the ocean in a rowboat. I hope you find what you're looking for. I understand it can be difficult since so many guys lie on their dicks. Good luck:smile:

 

[Mule]

rape is difficult to prove especially if she has a history of casual sex you sissies.

While I don't necessarily agree with "men don't fuck hard because they're afraid of rape charges", I do take issue with the above comment. Allegations of rape don't have to be proven in court to totally ruin a man's life.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

I understand. [snip] Good luck:smile:

Wt, I see from your post history that you regularly attach images of your cock in your posts. You usually post in threads where that is at least somewhat appropriate but I find it a bit crass and tacky in this thread.

There is nothing whatsoever being discussed here that requires or encourages members to show what they got. What makes you think a picture of your cock adds value to the thread? Your gallery link is right there if anyone is interested.

 

[dolfette]

that's like a weird compulsion or something.

 

[Wrist_thick10]

Wt, I see from your post history that you regularly attach images of your cock in your posts. You usually post in threads where that is at least somewhat appropriate but I find it a bit crass and tacky in this thread.

There is nothing whatsoever being discussed here that requires or encourages members to show what they got. What makes you think a picture of your cock adds value to the thread? Your gallery link is right there if anyone is interested.[/QUOTE

A large dick adds to sexual pain. Thats whats in the pictures. lets stay focused on the topic, please. Maybe you can add something to what she has discussed. thanks.

 

[dolfette]

it may add to the experience but pics don't add too the debate.
a ''big always helps'' comment would convey far more.

...they do however add to the amused bewilderment as to the workings of your mind.

 

[Twistbarbie]

Guys always try to be nice and take things slow. I don't want to be fucked slow. I like getting my ass pounded. I like pain. I want my legs lifted up behind my head . Guys dont like to do this. Why is it so hard to find guys to give me a descent fuck? Do any other women have this problem? I've had enough of fucking wimps.....im sorry if i seems kinda mean but this shit is getting crazy

I can introduce you to a couple of fuck buddies if you like? :smile:

I've shown a couple of guys how I wanted to be fucked and they were happy to oblige.

 

[MTHgasm]

While I don't necessarily agree with "men don't fuck hard because they're afraid of rape charges", I do take issue with the above comment. Allegations of rape don't have to be proven in court to totally ruin a man's life.

You'd have to be arrested for there to be any record (after a certain amount of time assuming it wasn't publicized) and it wouldn't bother me if I knew I didn't do anything wrong. Feeling guilty for something you KNOW you didn't do is just silly to put it kindly. But I wouldn't fuck someone I didn't trust to begin with. Just another reason why I'm picky.

Why are you guys making excuses for not doing something so fun (fucking hard) especially if she explicitly asks for you to fuck her as hard as you can?

I'm just you saying you can't be afraid and ALWAYS think being gentle is always going to be what a woman wants.