WHY are men so obsessed with "comparing"?

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I don't understand this. Guys love to compare their dicks, and they're always trying to rope us into comparing their dicks with other guys.

Why??? Who cares?

and why do guys constantly want to know the biggest dick you've ever had!?
 

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i dont need to compare my dick with any guy i do think thats necessary. :wink:

im not affraid of my size.. but the woman might be :rolleyes:

Maybe the biggest but possibly the best they are gonna get!
 

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To be honest, I roll my eyes at those threads...
"What's the biggest dick you've had? ...will ever take? ... size that makes you orgasm?"
"Do you think I'm big?"
"My girlfriend said I was small <inserts pic of big dick>"
"My girlfriend complains I'm too big <insert pic of big dick>"

Granted, some of these are genuine concerns... but some seem to like to spew out their stats as they feel like it .... like, "oh, I'm 8x6.5, but I haven't tried shaving my dick to make it bigger!" Just making this up here... </end rant>

I think it's the competitive-egotistical nature of being men. Porn sensationalized big dicks. Of course, it seems embedded in guy's minds that you're a lesser or better lover if they have a smaller/bigger dick.
 

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I agree with Oscar above, I think a lot of it has to do with porn.

I personally do enjoy looking at other guy's cocks sometimes, but I prefer to compare aesthetics rather than size

Some of the truly massive cocks out there look ugly, if you ask me.
 

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Cause a bigger dick is generally viewed as better unless the girl is actually tight. Bigger dicks can go deeper, stretch you out more and generally provide more feeling due to the larger size.

So if we are the biggest you have ever had, that would lead us to believe that when it comes to our dicks we have a natural advantage compared to past partners when it comes to our capabilities.

Hence the curiosity. We want to be the best you've ever had. And it's hard to be the best if we don't have this advantage.
 
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It's a big Universe, we just naturally have to think big. Thinking and imagining there is something bigger than us all out there is what keeps us going. Now you are confused big time :), I am. :)
 

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To be honest, I roll my eyes at those threads...
"What's the biggest dick you've had? ...will ever take? ... size that makes you orgasm?"
"Do you think I'm big?"
"My girlfriend said I was small <inserts pic of big dick>"
"My girlfriend complains I'm too big <insert pic of big dick>"

Granted, some of these are genuine concerns... but some seem to like to spew out their stats as they feel like it .... like, "oh, I'm 8x6.5, but I haven't tried shaving my dick to make it bigger!" Just making this up here... </end rant>

I think it's the competitive-egotistical nature of being men. Porn sensationalized big dicks. Of course, it seems embedded in guy's minds that you're a lesser or better lover if they have a smaller/bigger dick.

Because many men are insecure in what they have.
Many men believe that if they arent the biggest and the best, they are failures.
Many men are dumb in this regard.

Cause a bigger dick is generally viewed as better unless the girl is actually tight. Bigger dicks can go deeper, stretch you out more and generally provide more feeling due to the larger size.

So if we are the biggest you have ever had, that would lead us to believe that when it comes to our dicks we have a natural advantage compared to past partners when it comes to our capabilities.

Hence the curiosity. We want to be the best you've ever had. And it's hard to be the best if we don't have this advantage.

all well said
 

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You're stereotyping.

And incidentally, asking male LPSG members "why (they are) obsessed with comparing" is like asking female LPSG members if they like big penises. You're surveying a group that is not necessarily representative of the general population, and your answers are not likely to be representative of the general population, either.
 
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Even if there were no women. Men would still be obsessed or have a fascination with penis size. It's either that, model trains or starting world wars etc.
 
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I don't think I've ever asked to do this, or even wanted to do this.

Women have offered comparisons a few times, though not my wife as I was her first. My wife's best friend's ex was small, and one woman we know claimed that she had once had "ten inches," though that mostly seemed like some kind of weird attempt to immediately one-up me. Not sure why that women felt it was a competition, although she was pretty vain in many other ways too.
 

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personally gave up comparing in early teens
i remember distinctly, because i did not want mates to know... either way ,as to my preference for Gay, so steered clear of the topic hahha

i would expect many males would give up the idea of comparing ( with other males that is) from late Teens? maybe

with females, dont think they ever give up the competitiveness BS of it all..
Macho Male dickheads..??
 

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I think because it's the competitive nature in most men more ego alpha male for some men it defines their manhood gives them the top of the food chain or king of the jungle feeling in a sense
 

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You're stereotyping.

And incidentally, asking male LPSG members "why (they are) obsessed with comparing" is like asking female LPSG members if they like big penises. You're surveying a group that is not necessarily representative of the general population, and your answers are not likely to be representative of the general population, either.


What HE said !


:bj:
HH
 

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It's not just penises, men love to compare the size of everything they own, from wallets to automobiles.

Only if they think they will come out on top, though...