Why are small penis guys into sph?

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This is a question I have asked myself quite a bit. It seems to be a big fetish of mine, the SPH and cuckold theme. And it seems that a lot of smaller penis guys are into it too. Am I generalizing? Perhaps, but maybe you can tell me.

Just a bit about my background. Mine is small. Yes there are smaller, but I realize that in a room of 100 guys, 98 of them will have more downstairs than I do. So I have come to grips with reality. So why am I on LSPG? Well, partly to live out my fantasies of having a larger penis through you guys who are well hung. I understand that a woman will never tell me it won't fit, or won't be able to wrap her hand around it, and I know that I probably won't be able to give a woman an orgasm just from penetration. So that is why I come here, to see you guys who can do all of that because I am literally in awe of such things.

I had a GF who no only was very turned on my large cocks, but would indulge me of my fantasies of SPH. It really turned me on to have her tell me how small my cock was while she would give me a handjob or even while fucking her. We talked on many occasions about having a bull in for a cuckold session, and she was up for it. We even had someone lined up, but it kinda fell through. I was so much looking forward to watching her get nailed by that bull whose cock is 10x my size.

So for all you armchair psychologists, why am I like this. Is this they way I was born, or has society shaped me......or something else?

Thanks for your thoughts and opinions!!
 

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It’s probably societal for most people.

For myself it’s a combination of my own sexually submissive tendencies as well as the fact that I used to be kinda insecure about my small size. Discovering SPH gave me an outlet to turn what others might view as a “weakness” into a kink, something that turned me on instead of making me want to hide. It boosted my confidence as a nudist. I love to show it off regardless.

For me I guess it was just a natural progression from my other sexual interests. But it had the pleasant side effect of helping me be more confident in my own skin. And making what others would want to hide away into a fetish that gets me hard and leaking.

Bonus points as a bottom it gives even modestly sized tops a big ego boost which in my experience tends to not only turn them on more but it’s also just another way to serve my top as the best bottom I can be.

Again. Just my personal experience with SPH.
 

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have you ever thought that perhaps you just simply wanted your partner to be happy and enjoy herself sexually? you say you are here to fantasize about having a bigger dick and that sounds like it equates to more pleasure for your partner that you feel you may never be able to give her?

i think by her giving you sph, it validates your sense of worth as being small, and that in-turn gives you permission to accept that it's "okay" for her to fuck a big one cause you want to give her something that you will never be able to.

so in some kind of messed-up-logic in your own mind, you can project yourself to the bull who will be fucking your girl with a dick bigger than yours because you ultimately just want to give her pleasure. in a way, all this justifies that there is nothing wrong with this mentality and that it's "normal" per se.

i think you need to dig deep down into yourself and sort this out yourself. as long as this is a 100% conscious decision on your part and you've come to terms with it then that makes it perfectly fine. i think societal pressure to have a big dick does play a role here but i think we've heard and read enough that women truly do not care about dick size as much as men so in some sort of way, it's truly in our heads.

dunno what to tell you. if it works then just keep doing it. be honest with yourself and be happy doing it.
 

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Think of the beautiful bodies in Greek and Roman sculpture. The most beautiful people and gods had very small penises.
On a very athletic and well toned and man a small penis softens the overt masculinity.
Not to mention the fact that average male penis is only about 5 1/2 inches. So in a lot of ways, a small penis represents beauty in the average man.

I’ve been with more guys with small cocks than huge danglers
 

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I would say it had something to do with "making the most of a bad situation."

How did that go? When life hands you lemons, make lemonade?
I agree. The seeds of insecurity were naturally planted and a coping skill seems to be SPH. As long as it it is not further producing insecurity and low self esteem, I see no problems.
 

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I am a competent athletic guy that was lucky to be 6' tall and good lean muscular body that I train with weights.
However my penis is smaller than most.

I love looking at big thick cocked guys who are my heros and have them make fun of my size but really enjoy my smaller penis and small tight balls.
I love competition, especially in this area.
If a girl watches I almost tremble with excitement.
 

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I wonder if the SPH guys simply want attention, and they pick out an interesting characteristic to use to get that attention. Children can get attention by achieving something, or by misbehaving, or by being a class clown. Having a small penis isn't an achievement, so SPH is like being a class clown. The SPH guys don't seem to like being ignored, unless it is an ignorance that is somehow focused on them, like their partner is using toys or sleeping with other people because the small penis is unsatisfactory. The attention might also serve to highlight their non-penis advantages, like when SPH guys say things like "I have a tiny penis, but my girl sticks around because I have a great job, big house..."
 
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A lot of big dick guys get off on being told how big they are.

Kinda makes sense that small dick guys want some attention too.

And I'd assume humiliation play, that they are out in front of, has to be better than some patronizing comments like being "the perfect size" etc.

In other words it all kinda makes sense to me.
 

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Being considered perfect sized is patronizing? Man you better cough up that red pill it's doing bad things to your head.

Calm down killer. Don't talk to me about red pill. That shit is stupid and so are you for just assuming I'm into that shit.

We all recognize a patronizing compliment when we hear one. That's what I meant and you knew it. You just wanted to be argumentative for some boring ass reason.
 

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Dude you choose red pill Borden to me patronizing if someone told me that I had the perfect size tits to consider that patronizing it's just being absolutely a dick head. What do you want me to compliment your Corpus callosum?
 
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Dude you choose red pill Borden to me patronizing if someone told me that I had the perfect size tits to consider that patronizing it's just being absolutely a dick head. What do you want me to compliment your Corpus callosum?

Patronizing is tone and delivery. You're fuckin boring tho. Fuck off
 

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Patronizing is tone and delivery. You're fuckin boring tho. Fuck off

Dude you're like basic boring like every other dude who comes into this forum acting like you knows what he's talking about when it comes to women. We see your ilk all day