Why are some gay men exclusive tops? (Take 2)

For gay men who are exclusive tops: Why are you an exclusive top?

  • My nature/orientation is to top. Bottoming goes against my instincts.

    Votes: 15 21.4%
  • I have a medical problem (e.g., IBS, hemorrhoids, anal fissures).

    Votes: 4 5.7%
  • No medical problem, but I find being penetrated uncomfortable/painful.

    Votes: 25 35.7%
  • I simply don't enjoy the sensation of being penetrated.

    Votes: 27 38.6%
  • I am dominant/aggressive; bottoming is too submissive/passive.

    Votes: 7 10.0%
  • I am masculine; bottoming is a feminine role.

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • Topping makes me feel strong and powerful; bottoming would make me feel weak.

    Votes: 7 10.0%
  • Topping makes me feel superior to the bottom; I think bottoms are inferior.

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • I don't want to be perceived by others as submissive/passive/weak/inferior.

    Votes: 5 7.1%
  • Other

    Votes: 8 11.4%

  • Total voters
    70
  • Poll closed .

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But it looks so big in them horny pic views dude! I dont know if my arse can take something that size! Perhaps you could fly over to London so that I can have a closer inspection of it before I make a final descision?? Im can guarantee you mouth, pit and hand action - and if I feel horny then I will give up my arse for de-virginising. You want me to book the air flights? :biggrin1:
Rico frantically rushes to clear his schedule for the next three months...

"sure damian, I think I might be able to make that trip to London...lets see how it will fit into my schedule, hmmmm, can you make the flight for this afternoon????"
 

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Rico frantically rushes to clear his schedule for the next three months...

"sure damian, I think I might be able to make that trip to London...lets see how it will fit into my schedule, hmmmm, can you make the flight for this afternoon????"

Please dont squirt anything whilst you are on that plane flight - keep outa them loos, off the back seats of the plane and keep your horny paws off the slutty cheap cabin crew! Im a regular with these slutty international flights! They are a bed of sin in the sky! I want every drop of your big-cock squirt in my horny holes! :biggrin1:
 

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Okay, okay, get a room you two or take the dirty talk off this thread (grin).
Rico did allude to another point I thought I would add to this online gabfest...
I became a much better top after the first time I got fucked.
When you're on the receiving end for the first time, if you're paying attention, you learn techniques that will help you reduce pain for bottoms you fuck after that.
I mentioned, I was always really tight before getting fucked for the first time. After being on the receiving end, I realized that a good trick when fucking a tight bottom is to enter while being slightly soft. It takes a good deal of control to do this b/c most guys lose their erection if they are not rock hard, but if you start the fucking process with a dick that is less than rigid then allow it to "grow" after you've entered, you give the bottom time to get used to your cock and to go at a pace that works for him. This is especially helpful if the top has a big cock...and isn't that the reason we're all on this site?