Why are some guys so against kissing in gay porn?

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Who cares? You're fooling yourself if you think pornstars kissing would make it somehow actually wholesome or romantic. Even applying the word "intimacy" to what happens in porn is ridiculous. But perhaps fooling yourself is what you want to do...
Yeah, porn is fake but kissing could help it seem a little more real. There's a reason big shows and movies have huge set and prop budgets, to make them seem more real. I've seen scenes where the actors kiss more than normal and it seems more intimate. Of course, it probably isn't actually but it's not like people watch porn for what's real anyways.
 

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Yeah, porn is fake but kissing could help it seem a little more real. There's a reason big shows and movies have huge set and prop budgets, to make them seem more real. I've seen scenes where the actors kiss more than normal and it seems more intimate. Of course, it probably isn't actually but it's not like people watch porn for what's real anyways.
Yeah movies and porn and such are all fantasy but no one other than simpletons disagrees with that. Doesn't mean that the "perception of authenticity" goes out the window though. People still want to see porn that feels as believable as possible and kissing absolutely conveys a more intimate feeling than porn without it. That's not debatable.

If you don't care about "intimacy" in porn at all that's your prerogative and for some they don't desire that "romantic" vibe whatsoever. But the vast majority of porn viewers tend to gravitate to porn that they perceive as passionate to some degree and kissing plays a big part in that
 

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Who cares? You're fooling yourself if you think pornstars kissing would make it somehow actually wholesome or romantic. Even applying the word "intimacy" to what happens in porn is ridiculous. But perhaps fooling yourself is what you want to do...
You mean... it is not real? The people in those movies are not really in love with each other and just forgot there was a film crew in the room when they decided to consumate their relationship? Damn, next you're telling me, Santa Claus and the Easterbunny aren't real...
 
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You mean... it is not real? The people in those movies are not really in love with each other and just forgot there was a film crew in the room when they decided to consumate their relationship? Damn, next you're telling me, Santa Claus and the Easterbunny aren't real...
"Wait so the Avengers aren't real? And you're telling me that Frodo Baggins isn't real either!"
 

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Those studies don't say if it's an inherent instinct or the result of societal prejudice. Also, your point of bi guys theoretically only dating men still isn't right.
It could be either, or a combination of both.
I became a teenager in 1978, and back then there was a ton of anti-gay sentiment.
Boys who were "sissies" were tortured back then in school. So it could be in part due to being exposed to that.
 

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In gay porn and a lot of straight porn the guys won’t kiss guys and guys won’t kiss girls and girls won’t kiss the guy..

For most part these guys and girls are in relationships and their boyfriend or girlfriend don’t mind the sucking n fucking but when it comes to kissing they don’t approve..
Sometimes if they are in porn.. they will be in a porn with their boyfriend or girlfriend .. this happens a lot in gay porn..

Something about kissing makes it more intimate
 

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If someone hasn't already said it - there was an actual study on this phenomena.
When a heterosexual man sees two men kiss, there is a brain reaction that is exactly the same as if he saw someone vomit etc. It is just part of our survival of the species instincts.
Straight men's physiological stress response to seeing two men kissing is the same as seeing maggots
To be clear, I am not expressing an opinion, rather referring to a study that honestly, pretty much everyone already knows
You have indeed expressed an opinion - an anti-same-sex affection propaganda opinion - that all heterosexual men are disgusted by seeing men kissing, instinctively, because otherwise same-sex attaction would endanger our species. For all of human history men have been kissing and affectionate without causing humanity to become extinct. Which society do you live in? Has that society
socialized the notion of same-sex sexuality and affection as being ‘disgusting’ or immoral? Or do you live in a society that has made substantial progress towards normalizing same-sex affection and sexuality?
 
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You have indeed expressed an opinion - an anti-same-sex affection propaganda opinion - that all heterosexual men are disgusted by seeing men kissing, instinctively, because otherwise same-sex attaction would endanger our species. For all of human history men have been kissing and affectionate without causing humanity to become extinct. Which society do you live in? Has that society
socialized the notion of same-sex sexuality and affection as being ‘disgusting’ or immoral? Or do you live in a society that has made substantial progress towards normalizing same-sex affection and sexuality?
Thank you! Gay people shouldn't be compared to maggots. I don't see how anyone could actually believe that there are any similarities there.
 

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Maybe they aren't good at it or it might ignite feelings for their fellow porn performer because I won't lie if I were in the same room with Giorgio Canalis, I will have to restrain myself from kissing him because the way he fucks is just sooooo inviting and involving
 

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It doesn't bother me one way or the other if guys kiss in porn, but if it's a scene where one of them is supposed to be 'straight' then I prefer not to see them kiss or it feels like it spoils the illusion. I know it's stupid, because obviously if a guy can suck a dick then there's attraction, but there's something about kissing that kills the fantasy for me
 
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It doesn't bother me one way or the other if guys kiss in porn, but if it's a scene where one of them is supposed to be 'straight' then I prefer not to see them kiss or it feels like it spoils the illusion. I know it's stupid, because obviously if a guy can suck a dick then there's attraction, but there's something about kissing that kills the fantasy for me
I get how kissing could kill the fantasy. But I feel like people can force themselves to do a lot. I mean if a gay man was forced to have sex with a woman it doesn't mean he's necessarily attracted to her. In porn, especially even straight pairs aren't necessarily attached, and usually, viagra has to be used.
 
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