Why are some people so mean?

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Something to think about I guess.

I just asked because your last few sig.'s seem to have been saying something and yet leaving it unsaid. What did you have before this last one? I can't remember I'm just intuiting a remembered theme, kind of, in hindsight almost. :)

I'm not trying to be enigmatic. My sig usually reflects what's going through my head at that moment in time.

On topic: Yes, Wally. Sometimes it does. Just make sure you don't let someone else's problem become yours.
 

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Another great idea would be to form a support/dialogue group about "Why ARE people so DANG angry?" People's frustrations need an outlet. They need a voice. They need a positive non-violent, non-abusive way of coping, dealing, and resolving. People NEED to learn effective ways of coping with life struggles.

Count me in dude...I seem to run into a lot of mean asses, and unfortunately..I dont like to be treated like shit...and will respond in kind... lets start one..
 

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That's funny, the mean/rude dudes are often the ones who seem to think other people were mean/rude to them first quite often.

Not in Wally's case, but often enough to consider here.
 

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i don't understand why some people have to be so nasty and do things to inentionally hurt you i am sick of it. I am not talking about anything anyone on this forum did i am just talking in general. I mean what do people get out of making another persons life miserable, the past few days i have some really nasty people i have had to deal with. there is a person that is intentionally flagging my classified ads online so they will be removed, ads i depend on for work, and people are just downright nasty, one woman came up to me at bingo outside in the smokers area and said flat out get the fuck outta my way faggot, why are people so mean, and i know it's not just me i know other people go through this, i am really pissed off. a whole lot of other stuff has happened too. am i just being sensitive or reacting normally? i want to cry just about now... what the hell is wrong with some people???:mad::mad::mad:

Hon, I know exactly what you mean. Some people are just cruel assholes, it's ridiculous and pathetic...if I were there, I'd give you a big hug. Keep your head up.
 

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People put other people down to make themselves feel better. More likely than not, I person calling you something other than your name has issues that deal with that same name they called you. Learn to just move on and prove yourself the better by not acknowledging it.
 

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For all the shitty behaviour that goes on in our real lives, and for all the shitty behaviour we sometimes encounter on this interweb thingy, how wonderful is it that a thread like this can remind us of how much humane kindness and generosity is possible from people right around us?

Wally, thank you for the gift of this thread. I hope you're feeling all the love and respect surrounding you here. Carry it with you wherever you go. You're right, sometimes shit happens. But thankfully, when you least expect it, sometimes good shit happens! :smile:
 

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Fuck them. There are a lot of assholes out there. usally their lifes suck, so they want yours to suck also. THey have a bad day, so they take it out on you.

Some just do it when they think they can pick on you. Ever work a shitty job like Mcdonalds, or Pixzza Hut. Sometimes people want to joke ya or be mean because they think they can get away with it.


Funny story. I was at a resturant, I think it was an IHOP. There was an older guy there waiting tables, maybe in his forties, but big,looked like exmilitary. Anyways this young guy there was joking on him and being mean. The waiter said this. " My uniform made you forget I was a man." Let me take it off and lets go outside and fight. THat will remind you Im a man."

THat kid shut the fuck up. COuld not stop laughing.
 

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If I know why things are the way they are, things are still the way they are. If I don't know why things are the way they are, things are still the way they are.

You're a good man. She was being a shit. Don't let her live rent free in your head a moment longer than you have to.