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All gay cis men past 40 that I know are single.
Why are there so few older gay men couples?
I know plenty of older cis lesbian couples but zero cis gay male couples in their 50s or 60s.
Many gay cis men past 40 that I know are wealthy but they always use this wealth as if it were an advertisement, when they are searching for a relationship.
Why are most gay men in this situation?
When I asked a gay friend about the reason behind that, the only reason that I got was that youth is very important under gay men and that the high rate of promiscuity leads to gay men past 40 no longer being in demand.
I found this very sad.
As a 38 year old straight trans woman I still get plenty of attention from men.
Hearing the stories from these gay men often leads to me counting my lucky stars that I didn't have to grow old as a gay cis man.
Can someone with inside info tell me a bit more about why you guys are dealing with these issues?
Is it because the gay scene is superficial/judgy? Is it because the gay scene is so carnal / sexual in nature?
Why are there so few older gay men couples?
I know plenty of older cis lesbian couples but zero cis gay male couples in their 50s or 60s.
Many gay cis men past 40 that I know are wealthy but they always use this wealth as if it were an advertisement, when they are searching for a relationship.
Why are most gay men in this situation?
When I asked a gay friend about the reason behind that, the only reason that I got was that youth is very important under gay men and that the high rate of promiscuity leads to gay men past 40 no longer being in demand.
I found this very sad.
As a 38 year old straight trans woman I still get plenty of attention from men.
Hearing the stories from these gay men often leads to me counting my lucky stars that I didn't have to grow old as a gay cis man.
Can someone with inside info tell me a bit more about why you guys are dealing with these issues?
Is it because the gay scene is superficial/judgy? Is it because the gay scene is so carnal / sexual in nature?