Why are they so complicated?

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As you already know, I'm like nerd that doesn't know the things a nerd should know! :rolleyes:

Caffecaffe, she is sending mixed messages. It's possible she is trying to read you and thinks she is receiving mixed ones herself, such as when you interact with other girls.

I would just bite the bullet and flat out ask her, thru a text or face to face. I like you and want to date you. You?

Wldhoney is right, I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt as she is young. You do need to ask her, but DON'T do it via SMS. Excuse me, text message for the unknowing nerd.

Texting is what lead you to this so you need to ween her off. Besides, it is way to easy to lie over text message or even have someone else answer for her. I see this all the time in my house with my teens. SMS texting is a bad way to manage a relationship you want to be physical. I have seen the girls gathered round in the den giggling and telling another girl how to answer the "wanna go out?" message. You can never be sure you are talking to that person when you are dealing with young girls.

So I hope wldhoney is right, but I am still inclined to side with brother burns1de on this one.
 

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Judging by you being 19, I would assume she is younger and I would have to say she is playing coy games. Some girls get off knowing they can get a guy all hot and horny over the net or via SMS.

It's either put up or shut up. If she keeps doing this, find someone else and ditch the kid stuff.

in fact..she is older than me...

but like you people say... i'm getting out of her.
i 've already had my part of stupid girls (maybe i atract them...who knows...something wrong wiht my pheromones...lol:biggrin1:)

i dont like to loose time with people that dont diserv it.

but thanks for the advices!
 

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in fact..she is older than me...

but like you people say... i'm getting out of her.
i 've already had my part of stupid girls (maybe i atract them...who knows...something wrong wiht my pheromones...lol:biggrin1:)

i dont like to loose time with people that dont diserv it.

but thanks for the advices!

I've tried in my life so far not to judge women or people generally because I'm not necessarily supposed to be with every girl I meet. Life's a learning process, and I'm sure there's a guy who would be interested in your ex-friend. Just because she's playing with you doesn't mean she's that way with everyone. I used to think I had bad luck with getting involved with the "wrong" girls but it just took me a while to understand what I needed and wanted in a g/f. Then things changed. :biggrin1: