I'm so glad you asked!!!
I'm so glad you responded!!!
I truly believe that this site is whatever you -- not specifically you, Geordie182, but the "general" you (any member) -- want it to be or "stand for."
Given the number of virgins (with men and/or women) on this site, I don't think this place has a casual attitude towards sex. A lot of forum threads have nothing to do with sex or a penis. Many times, the talk in chat is about topics as varied as shopping for shoes to making a Halloween costume, choosing what to eat for dinner or a snack to laughing at some unusual names people were given by their parents, and so on.
I, for one, came here to see what the place was all about. Someone told me about the website, and I'm curious. I've met many interesting people on here both in forums and in chat, some of whom I always am delighted to read what they type. I've also met a couple of people whom I find unappealing in any way. It's just the same on here as in real life in any social situation with a large group of diverse persons. You like some; you don't like some; some like you; some don't like you.
Again, as in life, this place is no different from your local library, your neighborhood bar/pub, your corner deli/restaurant, your favorite coffee shop, or any other of your "real life" hang-outs -- it's all what you make of it when you're there/here!