Why are you on LPSG?

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When they don't want to believe your answer (probably because they want to hear something else) and keep asking the same question over and over again? Oh boy, those are annoying! (Just to clarify - I am just talking about such cases in general, not the OP's question)
generally, i didmiss tham as wazzocks who will never write anything worth reading and i put them on ignore.
 

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This.

Content and process; as well as context. If it's in a getting to know you kind of way, then it's cool. But, if it's in a derogatory, "oh, I know you're a cock hungry slut" kind of way, then that's a different thing, entirely.

Yes ^this, I beleive is exactly the point.

I don't believe anyone appreciates derrogatory remarks, and guys, you know when you make them....

Also, remembering that the men way outnumber the women here, we are inundated with requests and at times it's overwhelming. No need to be rude about your disappointment in being rejected. If you are nice, more than likely I will eventually talk to you (at least once).
 

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Quietman, you may not be the type of guy who would do this but I've seen many who have. Some of them are my own stories and some of them are stories from women in this thread already. I know it's hard for you to imagine a man treating a woman like this on a penis website. But it gets so shitty that you can't even make it up if you wanted to. This stuff typically occurs in the chatroom where guys are having one and one conversations in real time with women. Not in a thread where you might be a little leery of what you have said is going to be read by thousands by morning where you will get your ass handed to you for that sort of behavior. So I ask you to please join some of us in the LPSG chatroom sometime and we will copy and paste some of our favorite private messages to you. Here we go:

Chatroom: Hey how are you lady?
Woman to chatroom:I'm a little sad today because I had to put my dog down.
Some random asshole: Shut the fuck up about your dog and get that pussy on cam.
Woman: What?
Some random asshole: You know what I just said. Bitch get your tits out. I am jacking off and you are killing my boner.
Woman: I am not going on cam for you.
Some random asshole: Why are you here then?

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Woman: My mom died of cancer this morning.
Some random asshole: Oh yeah, well my dick is hard and I could care less if your mom died. You are dragging down the chat. So TITS or get the fuck out. Got it?
Woman: I am reporting you for talking to me like that.
Some random asshole: I don't care. Report me bitch. All the other guys will support me when they see you are on cam and not even naked. I'm here to get off not listen about your sad stories about your mom.

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Woman: Hey all, hows it going?
Some random asshole in private message: Hey baby wanna watch me stroke it?
Woman: No thanks.
Some random asshole in private message: You're fat anyway.

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I could go on with these examples for hours if you'd like. But since you don't like examples that go against your cries of Misandry. But you should really try making friends with some women and have them forward you some conversations that happen in the background that you have no idea is even going on because they wouldn't DREAM of saying these things where other men and women could see them.
 

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Mademoiselle -- holy hell! I had no idea about that kind of thing going on here. Shit. That truly sucks. I've never been on chat and -- gulp -- I don't think I ever will -- now. Geesh. That makes me sick to my stomach. I can't image anyone acting like that -- for any reason.

There is no way in hell I'd go on chat now. LOL. Some guys have asked, and I considered, but uh...no thanks.

Man, sucks to hear stuff like that. NO wonder you wrote a guide....:(
 

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Yeah I know! But since guys who talk like this are less likely to do it on the forums and more likely to do it in a live 1 on 1 conversation with no audience, people like Quiet Man will never see it.

But we ladies give a heads up all the time about these type of assholes who talk to us like this in chat in the Real Ladies Group. So I know it's happening to a lot more women than just me.

But I'm in the chatroom all the time, don't you ever hesitate to go in there while I'm in there ok? ;)
 
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Woman: My mom died of cancer this morning.
Some random asshole: Oh yeah, well my dick is hard and I could care less if your mom died. You are dragging down the chat. So TITS or get the fuck out. Got it?
Woman: I am reporting you for talking to me like that.
Some random asshole: I don't care. Report me bitch. All the other guys will support me when they see you are on cam and not even naked. I'm here to get off not listen about your sad stories about your mom.

Yep. This, more than pretty much anything else on the site has led to me being much more introverted on the chat and much less likely to make new friends. It isn't because I don't think there are nice people here (because there definitely are), but because I've gotten really tired of having to sort through the heaps and heaps of jerks to find the gems.

There are a lot of fun things on LPSG still but I'm very much narrowing down where I spend my time. Largely, it's in the Women's Issue section because there -are- other ladies and more polite men who won't stand for douche-y behavior.
 

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Yep. This, more than pretty much anything else on the site has led to me being much more introverted on the chat and much less likely to make new friends. It isn't because I don't think there are nice people here (because there definitely are), but because I've gotten really tired of having to sort through the heaps and heaps of jerks to find the gems.

There are a lot of fun things on LPSG still but I'm very much narrowing down where I spend my time. Largely, it's in the Women's Issue section because there -are- other ladies and more polite men who won't stand for douche-y behavior.

I totally agree. And I think people who want to cry out about the mistreatment of men on a male website where there are so many more horrible things being said towards women from men not just publicly but also in private is ridiculous.

I have yet to see one woman tell a guy he should shut the fuck up and show cock while he is talking about tragedy in his life. Not once, yet I see numerous examples of it happening to women. Numerous!
 

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Yeah I know! But since guys who talk like this are less likely to do it on the forums and more likely to do it in a live 1 on 1 conversation with no audience, people like Quiet Man will never see it.

But we ladies give a heads up all the time about these type of assholes who talk to us like this in chat in the Real Ladies Group. So I know it's happening to a lot more women than just me.

But I'm in the chatroom all the time, don't you ever hesitate to go in there while I'm in there ok? ;)

Mmm....LOL. Okay, but ....wow. I might deck a guy who said that kind of stuff...and since I'm online, decking is not so easy. I'm also against violence, but still...:)

I'll give it a try if I see you on. Hope you're feeling better!
 

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Some men assume women think like them. Women don't think like men guys!
Then they get pissed when they find out they are wrong.

I don't blame men for being confused. That's very common and happens all the time. But when you become an ass about it, and start getting angry about it, that's when its a problem.
 
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Mmm....LOL. Okay, but ....wow. I might deck a guy who said that kind of stuff...and since I'm online, decking is not so easy. I'm also against violence, but still...:)

I'll give it a try if I see you on. Hope you're feeling better!

*bares her teeth in a grin* Feel free to drop by the chat if I'm on too. I don't put up with douche-baggery. I'll be perfectly nice to people until they're a twat. Then it's on (like Donkey Kong lol)
 

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Short answer: Penis
Long answer: My penis
There's lots of things I enjoy about lpsg, but in the end it all gets back to the above, otherwise I'd be on another forum:p