micro: I have had issues about my size for a long time, but now days especially after reading from this board, I am really feeling a certain feeling. "Why bother having sex?" Concentrating on size, be it big or small is rather a turn off. Its like being told 'you better like this, or else' or 'everyone else likes this, so it must be good'. I am not one to follow the crowd. Personally I am getting tired of the focus on the penis, especially in gay magazines, but I suppose that straight porn isn't immune either.