Why "breeding" In M/m Porn?

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As someone who has never identified as male I had some curiosity about M/M porn. Why in a moderate amount of m/m porn is bareback, specifically what I know as a cream pie called breeding? It's anal, there's nothing as far as any of the anatomy involved that would result in procreation. I am genuinely curious, and am asking this with zero intent of being offensive. I am non-binary, no penis/testicles/etc on my body, spend a fair bit of time around and talking to LGBT+ folk. Is "cream pie" generally hetero and I am unaware?

I am a little amused and confused about using "breeding" for m/m sex, given how some men attracted to men have zero attraction (and in some cases revulsion) towards vulva and what not. What am I missing, if anything?

Thanks for any thoughts! Please take my question in the spirit intended of trying to learn n not offend <3
 

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As someone who has never identified as male I had some curiosity about M/M porn. Why in a moderate amount of m/m porn is bareback, specifically what I know as a cream pie called breeding? It's anal, there's nothing as far as any of the anatomy involved that would result in procreation. I am genuinely curious, and am asking this with zero intent of being offensive. I am non-binary, no penis/testicles/etc on my body, spend a fair bit of time around and talking to LGBT+ folk. Is "cream pie" generally hetero and I am unaware?

I am a little amused and confused about using "breeding" for m/m sex, given how some men attracted to men have zero attraction (and in some cases revulsion) towards vulva and what not. What am I missing, if anything?

Thanks for any thoughts! Please take my question in the spirit intended of trying to learn n not offend <3

I'm a straight guy and although I don't watch gay porn (I don't watch a lot of porn in general to be honest) I have seen the type of gay porn you referred to @masqued.visage at sex parties and the like, the bare back where a guy cums in another guys ass and it's referred to as breeding.
As a swinger and a bull in the hetero community this is something I encounter a lot, but as you say makes no sense within the gay community, like you've suggested surely this is just one guy cream pying another dudes ass, clearly it has absolutely nothing to do with breeding in the same way a guy would potentially inceminate a woman for the purposes of procreation.
Your question is apt and fresh and I too look forward to any answers that may shed light upon what I can only think is some kind or another.
 
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For people that like the term it get them hot u know extra horny

Hey, whatever does it for ya! I am not judging if who ever all involved knows what is up and wants to go for it, I just was curious :D
 

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This question made my jaw drop and then laugh because I don't know the answer myself. And I'm a bottom who absolutely loves the feeling of a man unloading inside me and filing me up. It only just now occurred to me that I don't know why we call it that lol.

So yeah, great question!
 

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As bareback sex (especially with ejaculation) was taboo for so long before PrEP, a lot of gay men grew up fantasizing (and fetishizing) it. “Breed me” is just an outré slang and more evocative in the moment than “cum in my ass.”

It’s a cry of liberation of being able to take a man’s cum inside of you, although possibly a bit self-loathing as it’s so heteronormative.
 

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This is a very interesting point. I do think it may be a little bit more than slang.

On the one hand breeding is not important. Yes, of course it is believed that getting horny and the pleasure of orgasm are both there to make sure the species continues but orgasms still feels fantastic and complely satisfying even when our concious mind knows that the load didn't go anywhere near an egg, for example if she's on the pill or we're masturbating. Clearly the primitive part of our brain that drives that behaviour doesn't concern itself with where we shot just as long as we did so.

Yet, on the other hand, it does seem to me the times my wife and I had decided we would have a baby had a little bit of extra excitement about them. Clearly there is a part of our brains that does know the difference and not in supercicial, intellectual sense but something deeper. Whether any of that is instinctive or whether it is just something we absorb from society with children being the norm I don't know.

Then there is question of whether gay men are the opposite to straight me in any particular respect. A gay friend of mine does the "Eew, fanny!" thing but is that universal? Or do some gay men find it just doesn't do anything for them one way of the other? And if all gay men fancied the most masculine of other men why would twinks be popular with some?

So why wouln't some men having gay sex want to get as close to acually breeding as possible and bridge the gap by pretending?
 
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As bareback sex (especially with ejaculation) was taboo for so long before PrEP, a lot of gay men grew up fantasizing (and fetishizing) it. “Breed me” is just an outré slang and more evocative in the moment than “cum in my ass.”

It’s a cry of liberation of being able to take a man’s cum inside of you, although possibly a bit self-loathing as it’s so heteronormative.

That is a perspective I had not thought about, though I have multiple friends who (thankfully) lived an survived through the worst of the HIV/AIDS crisis in the US. Thank you for sharing :emoji_thumbsup:
 
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I always thought it was called breeding, because it’s just animalistic for a man to get into another “animal” and leave his load, marking his spot and getting it done.

Some male species would just fuck whatever they could all the time to unload their load... increases their chances (although we’re intelligent enough to know it won’t work between 2 males)
 

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That is a perspective I had not thought about, though I have multiple friends who (thankfully) lived an survived through the worst of the HIV/AIDS crisis in the US. Thank you for sharing :emoji_thumbsup:

It would be interesting to know if was a common term before HIV. My generation grew up under the shadow of the virus and I don’t have first hand experience.
 
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Not being a gay man I can't speak on the gay porn aspect but I have heard it in cuckold couples, where a guy wants you to "breed " his girlfriend. And much like someone said above I would think it's was like an animal thing where in the wild if a male breeds a female animal the other males would not try to get any. It would be funny if people started saying mate with my gf lol

But this is coming from hetero porn perspective I have no idea why gay men use it in porn.
 
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Just my opinion but it's a pretty damned silly and disgusting term to use regarding human beings regardless of their gender or sexual preferences.

People always bitch about being dehumanized for any slight, but then they start getting all jacked about fucking "breeding". It's fucking gross and intolerable to the human race.

Is that how you would want your lover, wife, gf/bf, or significant other to feel like a fucking slave or a piece of live stock?
 
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Is that how you would want your lover, wife, gf/bf, or significant other to feel like a fucking slave or a piece of live stock?

So you're making the point that making love is not the same as fucking. But isn't making love fucking with something extra added - an emotional connection we generally don't ascribe to animals? It isn't fucking with the animalistic bit removed.