why can't guys be happy with what they've got

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PE is simply enhanced masturbation. It feels good. Why does everything have to be framed in materialistic terms? Has Milton Friedman's philosophy taken over everything? :confused:
 

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Because men are greedy and/or insecure. I'm mainly the latter and no, I'm not happy with what I've got. That doesn't mean I'm unhappy with it either - could be worse.

I'm insecure too. If I had what you've got I'd be happier, and more secure. It could be a whole lot worse. We could trade so you could see first hand how it could be worse. The grass is always greener...
 

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It' s a sad statement but an inevitable one when The Creator made it where we were all different in the details. Generically the same as in human but different in the proportions. Not only that but a weighted scale of approval towards one type over the other. Where the one inside the approval is pretty content while the one outside of the approval wants that feeling for his or herself.

I can't believe I just read a post in this section talking about "larger cock veins". Hahahaha! Good grief. It's down to the VEINS now! Hahahahaha!

They always say the world would be boring if we were all the same but that's not true. The world would run much smoother if we WERE all the same. The same being in different locations all understanding the perspective of the other being.

Because of inequity, struggle and strife were born. Yet for some reason we seek fairness and equality. Even WE must not like this order of the universe. People complain when rich people get off of crimes because of their wealth and prestige. But should they complain? They were gifted with the right to those passes because of their place in the hierarchy of approval. The people not approved complain, don't they? And funny how no one ever connects these dots between inequities of that kind and inequities of the physical kind like in penis size. Inequality anywhere is injustice everywhere, a famous man once said. Opportunity denied creates problems that affect all members of that society.

The only antidote I see is to create a possibility where one's uniqueness gives a unique reward that others can't get. You may not exactly the same gifts but they can have comparable weight and impact. You can gain a glory one other cannot and enjoy YOUR approval inside the circle.

People get agitated with insecure people but people can't help but to be insecure. What do you expect?! Hahahahaha. They weren't given a fair shake and a decent opportunity while another was. And some may not 'flight' from that obstacle nor become neutral and apathetic towards it. They may FIGHT it even if only in a stance of protest and sour grapes. That's human. That's natural. That's to be expected.

When human beings were classed up into categories by their design this was inevitable. We were divided by formation and it is tough to unite when the divisions run so deep. Each handles it differently but it is a sore spot when someone gets a better shake than you do.

Scientists gave a chimp a grape while not giving the other one a grape. Then afterwards scientists gave both chimps grapes. But the neglected one from the first gift-giving threw down that offer. Slapped the hand of the giver sending the grape to the ground. The other one continued eating his grape. Life ain't fair, that's for sure, but even we don't accept that in our heart of hearts.

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But if it's your partner that's constantly telling you your breasts are too small and you should get implants it's a different kettle of fish.

are guys really hounding women into getting breast implants????

i dunno i've always viewed breasts differently because that's something that's visable. you can see other women that are larger.
 

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You should be jumping joyously.

I know I am.

:dance:

I apologise for saying this, now I'm jumping too. Thank you for last night, you were so much help - introspection was needed. :kiss:

I'm insecure too. If I had what you've got I'd be happier, and more secure. It could be a whole lot worse. We could trade so you could see first hand how it could be worse. The grass is always greener...

And there is someone out there who would say the same thing about you. :smile:
 

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Men are like women. More often than not, you'll find insecure women (those that wear make-up are right at the top). Both genders will always have that "Not Good Enough" feeling. There are only, truly, a small number of exceptions i.e. people that SAY they are happy with things.

Edit: Beautiful post from john Lucas.
 

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I am happy with what I've got but nature has also given us a way to be happy with a bigger penis than we've got*, so I say why not use what nature has provided?

*The body reacts to consitent stress applied to an area by enlarging it, e.g. obesity, pregnancy, bone traction, Penis Enlargement exercises.
 

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Because men are greedy and/or insecure. I'm mainly the latter and no, I'm not happy with what I've got. That doesn't mean I'm unhappy with it either - could be worse.

Well Mr. Strings, let me tell ya.

I know I've given you some great ratings but let me say, and this is coming from a voracious top man, you have got the finest ass on LPSG. Now that's quite a thing in itself however you also have one of the top 5 cocks on LPSG. Let's add to this mix one of the most bewitching smiles, just a dash of great sense of humor, and a maturity beyond your years, and you have one hell of a great package.

I'm going to roll back the clock a bit and say that if I saw in the mirror at 19 what you have now, I think I'd have felt much different about myself. But I can't be sure. Like you, I had insecurities aplenty, many having to do with my appearance and penis size. If only I had this, if only I had that, so many things would be different. Or not. At face value it amazes me that you have any insecurities at all. On introspection, it just saddens me so much because it illustrates how infrequently we see the positive things in ourselves that others see.

The counterpoint is that when I was in school the one guy with the true 9 incher was perpetually greasy, acne ridden, withdrawn, and somewhat resembled Peter Lorre. He was a really nice guy once you got to know him though. In his case being huge didn't make a bit of difference. What was important to him were other things in his life that weren't going well at all. Though I know he took pride in outshowing the jocks and popular guys, he didn't have the self-confidence I thought someone that big would have. Pity it took me 23 years to learn that (but at least I didn't wait another 23 years) I'm not my dick though part of me is my dick and how exceptionally fortunate for you that you know this now.

Big guys telling little guys to be happy with what they have is like the Porsche owner telling the guy with the rusty Trabant how grateful he should be to have a car that runs. Who wants to ride with you in a Trabant? Who wants to even own a rusty Trabant? There's a point where yeah, it's a car, it does what it's supposed to, so you should be grateful, but it just doesn't have the same feeling. It doesn't say anything about who you are or want to be.
 

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I agree. Having a big cock is great, but if you don't have the confidence as a young man to use it, it's a wasted asset. Life can still suck.

I was regularly teased about the size of my cock but, funnily enough, always wished for another inch or two. What's the point in having "one of the biggest" when another inch or two would mean "the biggest cock in town"?
But in recent times I have been happier with what I've got and after spending some time on this site, I wouldn't want to change size (up or down).
 

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Men are like women. More often than not, you'll find insecure women (those that wear make-up are right at the top). Bullshit! Are you one of those gay men that has never actually known any women? I don't mean in the biblical sense; but as a friend. I'm guessing you don't have sisters otherwise you would never have made such a silly statement. Both genders will always have that "Not Good Enough" feeling. There are only, truly, a small number of exceptions i.e. people that SAY they are happy with things.
Edit: Beautiful post from john Lucas.


are guys really hounding women into getting breast implants???? Yes, they do! I dunno i've always viewed breasts differently because that's something that's visable. you can see other women that are larger.
Many men, like my ex-bf even offer to pay for them. Or make hurtful comments repeatedly like: "you're almost perfect . . . if only your tits were bigger."
"Gee, everything about you is wonderful, we could get married if you had bigger boobs." "You would be the perfect woman if your bobs were like out to here. (holds his palms 6" from my chest)."
Yes it was a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship. I finally got the courage to leave, but not until he had almost totally destroyed my self esteem.
 

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I think having a large dick is a kind of self-protection mechanism. A guy's tool is the worst possible thing you can dis, so if you can't do that beyond any reasonable measure, the guy feels somewhat safe. In popular media we're constantly seeing an overconfident woman leave some drooling idiot with a parting shot about his small size. Images like that are haunting to a lot of men. Most guys would rather you insulted their wallet, their car, their job and their mother before taking a shot at their wiener.
 

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To parphrase Goldilocks and the 3 Bears, "My cock is not the biggest, it is not the smallest, it is just right." So I will see that a day does not go by that he is regularly fondled, stroked, and loved so he can grow to his full potential.
 

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Great post! I think this is very true.

I think having a large dick is a kind of self-protection mechanism. A guy's tool is the worst possible thing you can dis, so if you can't do that beyond any reasonable measure, the guy feels somewhat safe. In popular media we're constantly seeing an overconfident woman leave some drooling idiot with a parting shot about his small size. Images like that are haunting to a lot of men. Most guys would rather you insulted their wallet, their car, their job and their mother before taking a shot at their wiener.
 

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Well Mr. Strings, let me tell ya.

I know I've given you some great ratings but let me say, and this is coming from a voracious top man, you have got the finest ass on LPSG. Now that's quite a thing in itself however you also have one of the top 5 cocks on LPSG. Let's add to this mix one of the most bewitching smiles, just a dash of great sense of humor, and a maturity beyond your years, and you have one hell of a great package.

I'm going to roll back the clock a bit and say that if I saw in the mirror at 19 what you have now, I think I'd have felt much different about myself. But I can't be sure. Like you, I had insecurities aplenty, many having to do with my appearance and penis size. If only I had this, if only I had that, so many things would be different. Or not. At face value it amazes me that you have any insecurities at all. On introspection, it just saddens me so much because it illustrates how infrequently we see the positive things in ourselves that others see.

The counterpoint is that when I was in school the one guy with the true 9 incher was perpetually greasy, acne ridden, withdrawn, and somewhat resembled Peter Lorre. He was a really nice guy once you got to know him though. In his case being huge didn't make a bit of difference. What was important to him were other things in his life that weren't going well at all. Though I know he took pride in outshowing the jocks and popular guys, he didn't have the self-confidence I thought someone that big would have. Pity it took me 23 years to learn that (but at least I didn't wait another 23 years) I'm not my dick though part of me is my dick and how exceptionally fortunate for you that you know this now.

Big guys telling little guys to be happy with what they have is like the Porsche owner telling the guy with the rusty Trabant how grateful he should be to have a car that runs. Who wants to ride with you in a Trabant? Who wants to even own a rusty Trabant? There's a point where yeah, it's a car, it does what it's supposed to, so you should be grateful, but it just doesn't have the same feeling. It doesn't say anything about who you are or want to be.

Amen, Jason, amen...

I think having a large dick is a kind of self-protection mechanism. A guy's tool is the worst possible thing you can dis, so if you can't do that beyond any reasonable measure, the guy feels somewhat safe. In popular media we're constantly seeing an overconfident woman leave some drooling idiot with a parting shot about his small size. Images like that are haunting to a lot of men. Most guys would rather you insulted their wallet, their car, their job and their mother before taking a shot at their wiener.

There is so much truth in this post. You hit the nail on the head.
 

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Big guys telling little guys to be happy with what they have is like the Porsche owner telling the guy with the rusty Trabant how grateful he should be to have a car that runs. Who wants to ride with you in a Trabant? Who wants to even own a rusty Trabant? There's a point where yeah, it's a car, it does what it's supposed to, so you should be grateful, but it just doesn't have the same feeling. It doesn't say anything about who you are or want to be.

What the heck is a Trabant? Is that worse than a Pinto or a Pacer? :confused: