I'm 19 years old, bottom, and for me it's really easy to cum while jerking off, but everytime I have sex I feel like it's impossible for me to cum, no matter how hot the sex is or how much I stroke my dick. The tops always cum and sometimes I feel like they have a feeling I wasn't enjoying because of that. Is something wrong with me?
Screw them!!
Do you enjoy the sex even if you don't cum, when you are getting fucked? Are you satisfied afterwards?
That is the only thing that matters. You don't owe your orgasm to anyone. If they think you didn't enjoy it because of it, It's their problem, not yours. It is a bit condescending for them to decide for you and not believe you.
Now, of course a top might like seeing you cum, and he might be turned on by it. But well, we can't have everything, right?
I am a top, and sometimes I had some amazing sex where I did not cum. The bottom did, I did not, because I didn't feel like it. It was amazing sex and the bottom was self-confident and smart enough to understand that I loved it. You just have to find a top who understands this too
