Proper prostate play can make you limp. Even cum limp.
Why can't i get hard when bottoming
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I stay rock hard when bottoming, but I have a buddy who used to go soft when I fucked him. He solved the problem by wearing a cock ring
A few tops I've had liked me hard as a bottom, but that rarely occurred naturally. They too suggested and many times used a cock ring on me.
Most of the time, though, I'm soft and flopping.
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Most of the time, though, I'm soft and flopping.
deine_huendin
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staying limp means focus on your TOP , it is not about you cock, not about your pleasure- it only for HIS fun
focus on his cock, on your tight ass, your prostate, your ass-cunt
so it is the rihgt thing when you pensis is flaccid and lip.
focus on his cock, on your tight ass, your prostate, your ass-cunt
so it is the rihgt thing when you pensis is flaccid and lip.
deine_huendin
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only prime territory for the real alpha top male
my ass for his joy
my ass for his joy
I may be hard or only semi-hard when it goes into my ass but the initial discomfort always makes me mostly soft. I occasionally recover some of the hardness during the fuck, but can often cum while being fucked even if I'm soft.
It could be a deep psychological reason. Letting another guy put his dick in you and pound you, puts you in an extremely vulnerable position both physically and mentally.
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I've not had a real cock. But LOTS of dildo play. My cock is rarely hard when riding. I posted this phenomena on LPSG and got very different answers. Like others have said, I too will very often cum with a limp dick. I read through many online personals where the guy is looking for another guy that stays hard as a bottom. So I think it's a common thing.
I always stay hard when bottoming, but I have a buddy who goes soft. His solution is to put on a cock ring so that he stays hard when I'm fucking him
When I’m bottoming, I tend to go limp soon after penetration, even if I’m rock hard just beforehand. I can only get hard bottoming if I continually wank my cock at the same time, otherwise I go completely flaccid and even ejaculate when flaccid.
Not a bad solution. And I've done that for some of the tops who like their bottom to stay hard. To me, it's most important that a top doesn't see it is a "negative" or "un-enjoyable" time for the bottom just because he's soft.
I normally do not get an erection while bottoming. One guy I used to see years ago used to get me so excited that I got hard to bursting point when he entered me face-to-face. I always came very hard with him. The guy I am seeing now brings me to orgasm even though I do not get an erection with him. I don't worry about it.
I never have this issue. Six hard inches will keep me fully stimulated.
If you guys doing all right I will leak and shoot cum without ever touching myself
If you guys doing all right I will leak and shoot cum without ever touching myself
deine_huendin
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is it real cumming while you are soft or semi
or is it a lot of dripping and pre-cum ?
It is real cum withe contractions and spurts.
Absolutely right. I concentrate so much on the sensation and the pleasure that I am giving that I don't even feel my penis. I stay soft, but am still in heaven.
