This is a question I've pondered numerous times and maybe someone on this board can help me. As the owner of an "above average endowment" (but not huge like some of you), I've wondered what it is that makes other guys in the steam room at the gym try to hit on. Let me explain. This is the local neighborhood YMCA. This isn't predominantely gay clientle--lots of working guys, all ages, married, single, you name it. I'm married, mostly straight (okay, I've had some encounters but no relationships or anything). I'll be sitting in the steam room minding my own business, hands down by my side, eyes sometimes closed sometimes open (no come hither looks in other words), enjoying the heat and the hiss of the steam and some other guy will come in and position himself across from me. Before I know it, he's strokin (first a pull, casually of course; then a stroke or two). Mind you, I'm not hard and before he starts pullin on his pud, I'm not even semi. But the guy will continue to stroke a bit, look at me, etc. (You probably know the cruising technique if you can help me with this question). My question is, why me? Why does this guy seem to think I'm interested. Ok, I may be interested--am interested sometimes--but what makes him think so? Honestly, I don't get it. What signals am I giving out anyway? I'm really trying to understand this, as it has happened numerous times with different men. I've ignored them before only to be cruised by them again later. Admittedly I've responded a couple of times, but unless there's some network of information out there that says "Hey the brown haired, shorter guy with the beard and nice cock likes a bit of action now and then" I don't get how these guys know to even approach it. Seems like they are living dangerously. What if I decided to punch them, or in the least, report them? It's happened with others in this gym. Your help would be appreciated. Thanks!