I've had lots of sex with "straight men" over the years and it seems the majority prefer the term "curious" to "bi". What's wrong with bi? When are we going to have "bi" liberation? Gay liberation took place almost 40 years ago.
To me you are curious until you actually try it then just bi.I've had lots of sex with "straight men" over the years and it seems the majority prefer the term "curious" to "bi". What's wrong with bi? When are we going to have "bi" liberation? Gay liberation took place almost 40 years ago.
To me you are curious until you actually try it then just bi.
To me you are curious until you actually try it then just bi.
That sounds fair. The only problem is the guys and gals who fear the stigma of being bisexual; and stick with straight or curious. Both of which after a certain activity level are a bit of a lie, IMO.To me you are curious until you actually try it then just bi.
I distinguish the act from the orientation/label.
A straight is someone who is orients emotionally to the other sex. And that doesn't change just because a guy with a wife enjoys fooling around with cock from time to time. MM sex, for straight guys, is very often about getting your rocks off without all the hassle of chasing pussy. Then it's back to wifey.
Are their actions homosexual? Of course. That makes them straight guys who engage in gay sex. Prep school boys. Boy Scouts. Prisoners. Sailors. What they do with one another doesn't change the basic fact that they're straight.
I know a number of women who played with women, either FF or as an FMF encounter. Every college girl, it seems, has licked pussy once, twice, a few times. They liked it or they didn't. But they went back to cock.
Are these women bisexual? Potential manhating, motorcylce-riding bulldykes with bad haircuts? To me, they're straight girls who fooled around with pussy, often only because their husbands/BFs pressured them.
Years ago, people claimed that call girls were often lesbians who hated men. Which I doubt but which may have been true in a few, isolated cases. But let's say it happened. Is a lesbian who fucks men really a bisexual? To me, she's a lesbian who fucks men.
Bi-curious men, to me, are basically straight guys who want to experiment with cock. Most will go back to/stay with pussy as their primary interest. A few will decide they are what they always suspected -- gay.
But yeah, I get what it means to be bi-curious without understanding it as a label.
I do see a very big difference in 2 types of bi guys. The mostly straight type of guy who experiments with men occasionally but is emotionally open only to women for relationships. The other has sexual /emotional relationships with people of both sexes. I could see calling the first bi-curious and the other true bi-sexuals. Can anyone come up with better labels? I think there are a lot more of the first type than the latter type in practice.
I've had lots of sex with "straight men" over the years and it seems the majority prefer the term "curious" to "bi". What's wrong with bi? When are we going to have "bi" liberation? Gay liberation took place almost 40 years ago.