Why did you choose to become gay?

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Hard to believe that this thread is still up here. Since it was posted by a straight man.

You might want to go back and review the rules. "Anyone" can start a thread in ANY of the "Ask a ____" forums.

It's when you respond in a forum that has a different catagory assigned to it than a person falls in, that the problem comes up.
 

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"Anyone" can start a thread in ANY of the "Ask a ____" forums.







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I am in no way a homophobe, I have tons of gay friends. I also think that in a free society people should not have to live their lives conforming to a religion they don't follow. I do think homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, but I'm cool with it.
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First of all, your comment that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, is like saying that your heterosexuality is a choice, or that you had a choice of the hair or eye color you were born with - it is, what it is, its how you were born.

Allow me to enlighten you, in that homosexuality isn't a "lifestyle choice". Why would I choose a lifestyle where I'm condemed, ridiculed, bullied, sneared at and viewed as a "second-class" citizen, simply for being attracted (emotionally and sexually) to someone of the same gender, or not conforming to society's view of masculinity? Living in surburbia, versus a metropolian area is a lifestyle choice. Driving a hybrid car versus a muscle car is a lifestyle choice.

I'm happy that I'm gay - it has made me a stronger, more compassionate person. I try to embrace everyone's difference, and try not judge a person for their difference, but rather on the character of their heart and how they treat others.

Some people choose to embrace their sexual identity earlier in life, and others suppress it (bowing to family or religious pressures), never allowing themselves the freedom to be their true selves - and in the wake of their suppression, hurt others by not being honest to all parties involved.

I hope that this has enlightened you a bit on the fact that being gay isn't a choice.

Just my two-cents - Kiltiesf
 
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Actually,,,you need to ask my "straight" parents that question. Since it is not my fault that I was born "gay".
I don't choose to be gay, it is the universe telling me that "enough" with the breeding.
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FYI....Gay people breed too - just not in the "traditional" way that is commonly associated with reproduction, or to borrow from your vernacular "breeding".
 
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I am in no way a homophobe, I have tons of gay friends. I also think that in a free society people should not have to live their lives conforming to a religion they don't follow. I do think homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, but I'm cool with it.
I don't have a lifestyle, I have a life.
 
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I was born gay but didnt act on those feelings until I was in my teens. My friends and I used to strip down to our underwear and wrestle in the basement when my parents werent home. Being teens we got hardons and I always ended up blowing a load.
 

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I was born gay but didnt act on those feelings until I was in my teens. My friends and I used to strip down to our underwear and wrestle in the basement when my parents werent home. Being teens we got hardons and I always ended up blowing a load.

Looking at your cock picture, I would love to help you blow your load.
 

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Just found out that you can't even talk about yourself. My bad!

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Trust me, there are plenty of gay people who have struggled with their sexualities for years/decades, been kicked out of or abandoned by their families, rejected by society, etc. They didn't "choose" this lifestyle, they just are who they are.

I've known I was gay since I was about 5 years old, HAH
 

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Hard to believe that this thread is still up here. Since it was posted by a straight man.

It was on its way to a quiet death until you revived it. Try looking at the posting dates next time. If a week or more has passed..... WALK AWAY!!!!!!
 
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Rolls my eyes and wonders why people ask stupid questions about sexuality ! your born straight or gay it in the genes.....you dont decide to be gay straight or bi it just happens
 

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Rolls my eyes and wonders why people ask stupid questions about sexuality ! your born straight or gay it in the genes.....you dont decide to be gay straight or bi it just happens

Genes are averything and nothing at some time. Do you know that D.N.A is a living matter and change by some condition?
 

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It was on its way to a quiet death until you revived it. Try looking at the posting dates next time. If a week or more has passed..... WALK AWAY!!!!!!

Sorry about that, you're quite right. :wink: