While I agree that cocks of all sizes should be celebrated, and that making everyone feel secure and sane is a great goal, the goal of THIS particular site should be whatever it's creator/owner wanted/wants it to be.
You do realise that you've just managed to do EXACTLY what you were bitching about everyone else doing?
I've read your posts and take you to be a serious and thoughtful person.
You're almost completely right. My limitation is that I almost always post after long days of hard work, after dinner, after one or two glasses of grapes. You'll have an excellent view to my sentiment, but not necessarily to my most disciplined and edited expression. Sorry -- I'm into the zany sometimes. People who see me face to face know me to be a positive, uplifting, honest compliment-giving, understanding, pick-you-up-when-you're-down, or downtrodden, fight for the little person, self effacing, humble dude.
Fucking wine fucks it all up though.
I apologize.
And yes, concerning Justin, spelled JUSTINE, she was a diversion. I think, however, that you mis-read. My point was that for men to go around publicly stating that big breasts are required for a hot woman is equivalent to women stating that a big cock is a prerequisite for a man. Justine is nearly
flat chested. She's a brilliant tennis player. I think she's hot. I was making the point that a flat chested woman can be hot. I re-read what Iwrote and I did not make any typographical errors except to misspell her name.
I also don't mean to call anyone an idiot. I didn't edit myself. A person who PUBLICLY is promulgating that men with bigger penises (or women with bgbreasts, or, or, or.....) are more desirable is not doing good for those who don't measure up. All of us know men and women who are not large. They are our friends and family members. If I believed that we were all sane, I'd tell you that were we to talk about penis size with any of them, we wouldn't be talking about some smug pride about being large.
What I'm saying is this: When we all agree to these notions, such as having a big dick is desirable, we DEFINE culture -- how people, for example the 19 year old woman who is insecure about her A bra cup, or 43 year old man with a 4 inch cock, should feel about themselves.
YOU/we have that power.
Once, when I was a boy, a group of us went to an empty field and we pulled out out dicks.
I was nicked named rocket dick. My best friend was football dick. Experimenting, we sucked each other's dicks. One of my friends cried. He was 1 perhaps 2 inches maximum. He cried because his dick was small -- to him. He's no longer with the living. His life was one of no self confidence and self loathing. On that day, he told me why. Even though I was a kid, I tried to help him. He was a beautiful person.
And he's dead. Dead -- in part -- because he was never inflated as a full self respecting person because his dick was never inflated to the size that the culture said was large.
If his state of mind represented only 1/10th of a percent of the reason why he did not make it, I chose to own that and to try to talk about the destructiveness of big boob, I mean, cock worship.
If the owner/creator of the site thinks that's wrong, he/she needs to ban me.
We can celebrate and display big cocks and still be good people. We can talk about what turns us on and still validate men who don't have big cocks.
This is crucial: when we do so, we make ourselves better.
I'll also correct another assertion that I made -- having to do with fat assess needing big cocks. OF COURSE, there are petite, athletic women and men who need and enjoy more meat. I realize this and apologize that I used the example of the slovenly loose fat ass as the motivation for big cock worship.
That was my own experience -- knowing men who are crushed psychologically because they chose the wrong parents -- lashing out against the gallery of unthinking people with measuring tapes.
One thing I would no change: I don't know why i joined the forum. It is a great forum. For the most part, people are civil. There are lots of very thoughtful and informed posts. The site has the best porn. in some cases, the discussions are pretty "clickish" but overall, this site is entertaining, intelligent and ball draining hot. I'm glad to be a part of it -- especially with you in it.
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go check out your profile pics and rub my cock as I do so. :biggrin1:
