Why Do Ex's Return?

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it's because they miss you :-(

Or its because theyre a straight up bitch? lol.

My exs always come back to me for some reason even when I have a girlfriend and they seem to only do it when im dating someone other than them. I think its jealousy to be honest.q
 

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Mine always shows up when he has a hot young girlfriend, like I give a shit.
I think he thinks that since I am 42 it is gonna hurt my feelings that he is with a 20 something. I left him for crap like that. Guess he doesn't get, it doesn't impress me now it sure as hell didn't impress me then. Can you tell mine just called to ask my teenage daughter to stop by the grocery and bring him some eggs so he can cook Ann breakfast in bed in the morn, they are all warm and didn't want to get out? What the hell????

Right when I think any more shit can't possibly happen, it does.

Just keep your tone irrepressibly chirpy (like a cashier who hates her job but has to provide "customer service") when you say, "I'll tell her. Enjoy your breakfast in bed!"

And resist the urge to tell your teenage daughter to find some cracked (or rotten) eggs to take over there.

Did you ever see the movie Diary of a Mad Black Woman? (Go to Diary of a Mad Black Woman (2005) or Google it.) There's a point at which the main female character's mother tells her how she'll know when she's over the man who did her wrong. It's an interesting scene.

Wishing you the quickest and most complete recovery from being with your ex,

NCbear (who has one ex of his own who tried some shit and had to be told off)
 

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There's a woman from my past who kept wanting to get back together, and each time swore up and down that it was not about the sex or my size. The problem is and was always that while we get along famously, the bottom line is never about "us", and it's both our faults. All we ever talked about was our goals for ourselves, all of which was interesting, but it was never about being together. Someone once said something like: love is sharing a dream rather than looking at each other dreamily--- or something like that. We've finally become smart enough to be just friends.