Why do Gay men call their Ass a Pussy?

[raceplay]

I noticed in bed I’ll be plowing a guy and on many occasions they’ll refer to their ass as a pussy or still cling to heteronormative power dynamics.

Thoughts?

 

[Andyc316]

It’s a little cringe to me—I think bussy is fine ironically, but having someone call it a pussy never appealed to me ‍

 

[raceplay]

No judgment by the way. I’m all for femdom or sissies or whatever kinks but I need to consent.

Outside of kink I just want to say fellas you are loved and don’t have to fall into the trap of hetero dynamics.

 

[Andyc316]

No judgment by the way. I’m all for femdom or sissies or whatever kinks but I need to consent.

Outside of kink I just want to say fellas you are loved and don’t have to fall into the trap of hetero dynamics.

Totally—everybody should do what they want as long as all parties are cool with it. I just meant it would be cringe for me in a sexual situation and my partner says that.

And for some reason the emoji I used turned into the male symbol lol—I had the shruggy guy instead

 

[halcyondays]

Many effeminate bottoms refer to themselves as girls and their asses as pussies or even cunts. It's been so common over the years I'm surprised when I don't hear it.

More unusual is when non-fem gay/bi males say it. Even muscled hairy guys have referred to themselves as whores in bed.

It's all good with me. However individuals identify or express themselves--especially when intimate--is fine.

It's all down to the individual. To avoid offending I pick up the parlance partners like to use about themselves. Guys will usually spout the sex talk they like.

 

[deleted16002081]

It can be really sexy in the right context, and least for me. If a guy refers to his ass as a pussy all the time though, then that's pretty cringe.

For me, I only do it either ironically, or when the moment is right and there's some kinky play going on. Otherwise, I've got an ass!

 

[thongboy]

personally I find it a little creepy and maybe it's because Im bi and like real pussy too. But if a dude likes to describe his ass that way and finds it a turn-on — well he's not doing anyone any harm.

 

[Searafina1980]

I bi and I love pussy. I thinks it’s hot a dude can be so sub he wants to get fucked like a bitch. He says fuck my pussy and I fuck it. I can make both both kinds of pussy cum hands free. That’s the goal . Wet wet cum

 

[Big_a_20]

I bi and I love pussy. I thinks it’s hot a dude can be so sub he wants to get fucked like a bitch. He says fuck my pussy and I fuck it. I can make both both kinds of pussy cum hands free. That’s the goal . Wet wet cum

Exactly! Just like when they are begging me to get them pregnant I know I’m not going to give them a baby in 9 months haha

 

[Searafina1980]

Exactly! Just like when they are begging me to get them pregnant I know I’m not going to give them a baby in 9 months haha

So hot!

 

[Searafina1980]

Tell me that’s not the perfect pussy. I’m not afraid of femme. Just give me the cum.

 

[tuxedoshark]

I'm vers top and nothing makes me cum buckets harder when a guy says "fuck my wet pussy!" I find nothing cringe about it all. Sex is a fantasy come to life and then reality sets back in after you cum. So let the dude call it his pussy all he wants!

 

[Richiecable]

If I’m getting fucked hard, being man handled , I’ll tell him to fuck my pussy harder. Normally I won’t refer to my ass as pussy but on these occasions, where I have a man’s man taking me, it’s a turn on for me.

 

[goldscorpguy]

When my fwb texts me and says he wants to fill my man pussy, I know exactly what he wants and exactly what I'm gonna get. And if he says he wants to breed me then even better!

 

[deleted16873301]

To me it’s all about being used like a total bitch. So I call it my pussy too. In my mind it doesn’t have much to do with heteronormativity at all. It’s more of a sub thing. Like my ass is only to be used to dump a load in. And let me tell you, that’s a fucking turn-on for me.
Ok I need to stop talking this is making me horny AF.

 

[HornyUnicorn]

The only man I've ever had sex with who referred to his pussy was a trans man, who really had a vagina.

 

[Infernal]

It doesn't work for me. Call it what you want, but I like to fuck ass, not pussy.

 

[johnweek1]

It’s a little cringe to me—I think bussy is fine ironically, but having someone call it a pussy never appealed to me ‍

Agreed! So cringe! I hate bussy, too. Anything verbiage that equates to female anatomy when your a dude seriously turns me off.

 

[nygayguy1]

Yeah, that's not really my thing--and I'm glad my husband doesn't do it--but if a friend wants to, fine. It's not like none of our FWBs have told me to make them pregnant. Of course, none of the boys are getting pregnant, but that's a turn-on sometimes. If it adds to someone's fun when I fuck him, that's fine by me!

 

[Cdkcdk92]

Why not? It's a nickname for a vagina, why not an ass too.