Why do Gay men call their Ass a Pussy?

[raceplay]

I noticed in bed I’ll be plowing a guy and on many occasions they’ll refer to their ass as a pussy or still cling to heteronormative power dynamics.

Thoughts?

 

[Searafina1980]

I bi and I love pussy. I thinks it’s hot a dude can be so sub he wants to get fucked like a bitch. He says fuck my pussy and I fuck it. I can make both both kinds of pussy cum hands free. That’s the goal . Wet wet cum

 

[Big_a_20]

I bi and I love pussy. I thinks it’s hot a dude can be so sub he wants to get fucked like a bitch. He says fuck my pussy and I fuck it. I can make both both kinds of pussy cum hands free. That’s the goal . Wet wet cum

Exactly! Just like when they are begging me to get them pregnant I know I’m not going to give them a baby in 9 months haha

 

[tuxedoshark]

I'm vers top and nothing makes me cum buckets harder when a guy says "fuck my wet pussy!" I find nothing cringe about it all. Sex is a fantasy come to life and then reality sets back in after you cum. So let the dude call it his pussy all he wants!

 

[Richiecable]

If I’m getting fucked hard, being man handled , I’ll tell him to fuck my pussy harder. Normally I won’t refer to my ass as pussy but on these occasions, where I have a man’s man taking me, it’s a turn on for me.

 

[PhDick]

I can't imagine a situation where a verbal top would be too "filthy" just can't see how that would be possible.

Well, fuck, man. We'd have fun.
I've been know to *really* get nasty if the other guy keeps taking the verbal like a champ.

Read the thread and actually was quite surprised, you guys.

Sure, bet it's a bit of a cultural / language thing - I mean... Jesus, English has NOTHING on Polish if you want to destroy and denigrate a dude verbally during fucking - but calling a bottom (...or not even just a bottom, if you get the guy sufficiently horned up) or their ass in particular a (boy)pussy, or a cunt, is not that different in my experience from calling it a fuckhole, or, for that matter, from asking him outright the whole shit:

"Yeah slut, you gonna out that boy pussy for my alpha stud cock?".

It's part of the verbal sex game. If you like to really show that heavy role division in the bedroom - AND BOTH PARTIES ARE INTO IT - I'd say sexism, racism, fuck, all -isms fly. Inappropriate shit equals taboo equals hot af in many cases. And I'm actually surprised to see so many voices here say that would turn them off.
Definitely hasn't happened... at all, I think? To me, yet.

... And all that comes from a guy that would rather cut his tongue than actually spew sexist/racist bullshit and actually meant it. But in a sex scenario? I'm literally getting hard already.

 

[Andyc316]

It’s a little cringe to me—I think bussy is fine ironically, but having someone call it a pussy never appealed to me ‍

 

[raceplay]

No judgment by the way. I’m all for femdom or sissies or whatever kinks but I need to consent.

Outside of kink I just want to say fellas you are loved and don’t have to fall into the trap of hetero dynamics.

 

[Searafina1980]

Exactly! Just like when they are begging me to get them pregnant I know I’m not going to give them a baby in 9 months haha

So hot!

 

[deleted16873301]

To me it’s all about being used like a total bitch. So I call it my pussy too. In my mind it doesn’t have much to do with heteronormativity at all. It’s more of a sub thing. Like my ass is only to be used to dump a load in. And let me tell you, that’s a fucking turn-on for me.
Ok I need to stop talking this is making me horny AF.

 

[Infernal]

It doesn't work for me. Call it what you want, but I like to fuck ass, not pussy.

 

[HungBiGuy8]

I bi and I love pussy. I thinks it’s hot a dude can be so sub he wants to get fucked like a bitch. He says fuck my pussy and I fuck it. I can make both both kinds of pussy cum hands free. That’s the goal . Wet wet cum

bi bottom here, love this reply. I like to please, I'm not very verbal but love a top who is. I'll let a guy call me whatever he wants. As long as he's enjoying using my mouth and smooth hole, he can call me whatever he wants. My goal is his pleasure and his load, whatever it takes is fine with me.

 

[Andyc316]

No judgment by the way. I’m all for femdom or sissies or whatever kinks but I need to consent.

Outside of kink I just want to say fellas you are loved and don’t have to fall into the trap of hetero dynamics.

Totally—everybody should do what they want as long as all parties are cool with it. I just meant it would be cringe for me in a sexual situation and my partner says that.

And for some reason the emoji I used turned into the male symbol lol—I had the shruggy guy instead

 

[halcyondays]

Many effeminate bottoms refer to themselves as girls and their asses as pussies or even cunts. It's been so common over the years I'm surprised when I don't hear it.

More unusual is when non-fem gay/bi males say it. Even muscled hairy guys have referred to themselves as whores in bed.

It's all good with me. However individuals identify or express themselves--especially when intimate--is fine.

It's all down to the individual. To avoid offending I pick up the parlance partners like to use about themselves. Guys will usually spout the sex talk they like.

 

[goldscorpguy]

When my fwb texts me and says he wants to fill my man pussy, I know exactly what he wants and exactly what I'm gonna get. And if he says he wants to breed me then even better!

 

[bravesoldier]

It said that a couple of times jokingly because it is likened unto getting pussy when a guy takes the "role" of the woman being on the bottom and taking the dick. I had one guy say he couldn't stand to hear that, so I didn't say it around him again. Another didn't say anything. To each his own, but I don't think it's something to take too seriously. It's not meant to offend, it's really just figurative speaking. I think it's cool when a guy calls his ass a man cunt. I get the concept of "bussy" but not a term I prefer to use.

 

[deleted17361041]

For me it has to do with the fact that I do like to feel like a “whore” in bed. I’m masculine looking and acting out of bed, so in bed I really like to feel my filthiest. So having my hole named as pussy, makes me feel like a “real” whore/slut. Plus I am very verbal, and driven by words, so the closer the words that make me feel like a filthy whore, the more excited I am.

 

[johnweek1]

It’s a little cringe to me—I think bussy is fine ironically, but having someone call it a pussy never appealed to me ‍

Agreed! So cringe! I hate bussy, too. Anything verbiage that equates to female anatomy when your a dude seriously turns me off.

 

[Cdkcdk92]

Why not? It's a nickname for a vagina, why not an ass too.

 

[art10]

No idea, I find it disgusting along with “bussy.” I typically bottom and would never refer to myself with either -ussy word, it would be so denigrating. Fortunately never had another bottom say this to me as it would be an immediate turn off. I’m gay and have no interest in female-anything, FFS.