Why Do Gays Always Want Big Butts?

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Why do both bottoms and tops always want big butts
First, I understand for tops it is hot and attractive to have a big fat ass to fuck.

But who do bottoms try so hard to have a big ass? The bigger the ass the less deep the dick goes. I would say the best bottoms have the tiniest bums. Then you can eat it out and actually reach places with your tongue and your dick doesn't have to be pornstar sized to reach deep.

Why did we come to the place where the aesthetic became more important then the actual fucking?
I'd say bottoms stop squatting so much and it would improve the sex.
 

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The premise of your question is faulty. Gays do not ALWAYS want big butts. Some do, some don't. If you are finding this to be the case, you need to broaden your horizons. If anything, I find that slender and toned with a small to medium sized butt is the aesthetic that far more of today's generic porn goes towards.

Get out of your narrow world, you'll find butts of all sizes.
 

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Why do both bottoms and tops always want big butts
First, I understand for tops it is hot and attractive to have a big fat ass to fuck.

But who do bottoms try so hard to have a big ass? The bigger the ass the less deep the dick goes. I would say the best bottoms have the tiniest bums. Then you can eat it out and actually reach places with your tongue and your dick doesn't have to be pornstar sized to reach deep.

Why did we come to the place where the aesthetic became more important then the actual fucking?
I'd say bottoms stop squatting so much and it would improve the sex.

The fucking Kardasians!
 

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Why do both bottoms and tops always want big butts
First, I understand for tops it is hot and attractive to have a big fat ass to fuck.

But who do bottoms try so hard to have a big ass? The bigger the ass the less deep the dick goes. I would say the best bottoms have the tiniest bums. Then you can eat it out and actually reach places with your tongue and your dick doesn't have to be pornstar sized to reach deep.

Why did we come to the place where the aesthetic became more important then the actual fucking?
I'd say bottoms stop squatting so much and it would improve the sex.

Get out of here with this blasphemy, I love suffocating trying to reach the center of a beefy bubble. I love watching it bounce around while I slam my dick in
 
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Why do both bottoms and tops always want big butts
First, I understand for tops it is hot and attractive to have a big fat ass to fuck.

But who do bottoms try so hard to have a big ass? The bigger the ass the less deep the dick goes. I would say the best bottoms have the tiniest bums. Then you can eat it out and actually reach places with your tongue and your dick doesn't have to be pornstar sized to reach deep.

Why did we come to the place where the aesthetic became more important then the actual fucking?
I'd say bottoms stop squatting so much and it would improve the sex.

This is really strange hearing this. My experience with guys has always been that the large majority don't care about how big your ass is... They all just want a big dick. Messages are always "Hung?", "Are you hung?", "Bet you got a nice BBC" and everything else to do with a large penis.
 

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Everyone has their preferences. Not everyone wants a big butt, but it is seen by many as desirable. I think it comes down to a number of factors:

1. Societal norms of beauty
2. Bigger butts are fun to hold and squeeze
3. For men, big butts often mean they are muscly, and muscles are usually seen as attractive for men
4. For me, there's more of an heir of mystery to getting inside a big butt. You have to really spread the cheeks and get between them to get to the hole
5. It's fun to rub your dick between the buns (like titty fucking for gays)
6. It's fun to eat an ass and feel those big cheeks on my cheeks
7. It just looks so juicy!

That being said, I don't have any major preferences for butts, but there is something nice about a juicy bum.
 
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define what you mean by 'big butt' - as one poster said as a rugby player he had a 'big but' but was all muscle; some big butts are just 'fat' butts; does a peachy bubble butt count as big?

no doubt depending on all sorts of cultural and societal input to oneself, we all have an idea of what 'big butt' means.

for me i prefer a smaller, pert, muscled bubble but, something that when you grab feels firm in your hands, that has a tight hole and needs some work to relax it. My current bf has such an ass and its great though many would call it a big butt , i love it though.
 

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I like muscular butts! Not that they have to be big but the flat as a board skinny butt does nothing for me. Body parts need look best if they are proportionate though. If I am REALLY into the dude... the physical attributes do not count as much as the connection does.
 

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I’m a bottom and I’ve always had a big butt (I’m Latino) especially in relation to my body weight and even though it HAS help to attract quite a few men I think that most guys don’t really care. I’ll say though that I don’t have a big dick and the men I’ve been with didn’t care at all because they were mainly interested in what my ass looked like.
 
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Back when I was more of a top, I wouldn't say I was a fan of big butts, but I really disliked guys with small bony butts. Nothing worse than fucking them and you can feel their bones jabbing at you. So I like a guy to have some padding on them. And along the same lines, I don't care for guys with flat asses, it is very unappealing to me. So once again, there has to be some padding in there.
 

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Similar to straight guys who are turned on by a thick shapely female ass, a nice ass often gets noticed a lot more than a small skinny ass or an obese ass. Same with gay guys. My ass gets me the attention I want when I want it... and I love grabbing a thick muscled ass when I'm on my knees sucking and on my back in missionary.
 

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Why do both bottoms and tops always want big butts
First, I understand for tops it is hot and attractive to have a big fat ass to fuck.

But who do bottoms try so hard to have a big ass? The bigger the ass the less deep the dick goes. I would say the best bottoms have the tiniest bums. Then you can eat it out and actually reach places with your tongue and your dick doesn't have to be pornstar sized to reach deep.

Why did we come to the place where the aesthetic became more important then the actual fucking?
I'd say bottoms stop squatting so much and it would improve the sex.
Where do you get this presumption from - what strange media do you follow?
 
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Eh, this is a foolishly generalized point of view, but I'll bite.

For me, I just like butts, even though I've always been primarily a bottom. Do I like big ones? Hell yeah. They're fun to spank and put my face into. Would I turn down a guy if he was on the flatter side? No, not for that reason, anyway.
 
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Why do both bottoms and tops always want big butts
First, I understand for tops it is hot and attractive to have a big fat ass to fuck.

But who do bottoms try so hard to have a big ass? The bigger the ass the less deep the dick goes. I would say the best bottoms have the tiniest bums. Then you can eat it out and actually reach places with your tongue and your dick doesn't have to be pornstar sized to reach deep.

Why did we come to the place where the aesthetic became more important then the actual fucking?
I'd say bottoms stop squatting so much and it would improve the sex.
I prefer guys with smaller asses a lot easier to rim