"My first girlfriend asked me what my size was before we ever had sex (it's a long story, but when we began dating she moved to another state so it became a long distance thing, so we started having phone sex before we ever did anything, weird I know). When she asked, I very honestly told her "I don't know, like 6 1/2"?" She said cool then the next day when we were talking she said "So I looked at a ruler and saw 6 1/2"...it's a pretty good size". I felt happy but didn't really care at the same time since I assumed I was just average (which I still believe I am). After her, I had several hook ups, no girl ever mentioned size or whatever and I didn't care, I don't expect girls to. Then one girl I recently started getting with told me I had a nice cock the day after we hooked up while we reflected on our sexcapades. It wasn't until I showed some chick my dick on cam and she told me that it was small later. I got really insecure and while googling ran into penissizedebate.com. According to the charts, I was at best just average and if a girl says that i have a "nice cock" or something like that, she was just trying to flatter me and that I was actually small. I believed it and became very insecure and for a long time thought I was small. I still kind of do, but joining this site has really helped me shed light on the reality of sizes, how important it is, among other things. I'm still trying to find the truth to clear my mind of any stupid insecurity.
But yeah, that's basically my story on why I've developed my insecurity and why I'm here. Sorry for the long read!"
Hey man,
It's actually pretty odd, but I have had a very similar past as you. I actually got positive comments about my size from the girls i've dated, with only the exception that when I started to get impotent and couldn't get it up, she complained that she couldn't really feel much, but that I can understand. But here's the deal, I'm clearly beyond average, and yet I'm worried as hell about my size. I have serious problems, and I see a psychiatrist. Now here's the similarity, it started early somewhere around 14 or something, where a friend of mine introduced me to porn, I started seeing massively hung black guys. Then... here it comes:
I started looking online for info about it, and there you have it, i find the site penissizedebate.com
A fucking horrible site made by someone in or sponsored by the penis enlargement companies who spent a great deal of time, setting up a very deceptive site. I saw that entire site by 14 or something, and obviously got extremely worried. Since that moment, I've never recovered...
Oh and just to tell you as some already have, from the picture, your size looks good, and you shouldn't measure your dick when it faces upwards, it will not give you an accurate reading. The best is if you have a Peter north-like straight dick, so you can put it on top of it. If you dick curves clearly, you should put it on the side to go along with your dick, but obviously start at the proper point, and don't exaggerate it.
I've been trying some health projects lately, full scale, to see if there's some growth to be achieved, from the studies it says the average man's penis still grows until 24, and a very small bit until 29. I'm still very young, so I can hope.
Regardless, what I can tell you, is that the problem is between your ears, and not between your legs. Fix your mind, it will fix your dick.
Good luck