Why Do I Fear Becoming Involve With A Bi-Man Again?

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He's said he's bisexual.
Believe him.
Many women seem to think that he'll be so happy, he'll never look at a man again.
Don't ever ever ever think that he will give up sex with men.
It has nothing to do with how wonderful you are.
It's a biological need.
If you can accept the fact that he'll be having sex with men, go for it.
Otherwise, you're probably in for a lot of heartache.
 

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Webster said:
He's said he's bisexual.
Believe him.
Many women seem to think that he'll be so happy, he'll never look at a man again.
Don't ever ever ever think that he will give up sex with men.
It has nothing to do with how wonderful you are.
It's a biological need.
If you can accept the fact that he'll be having sex with men, go for it.
Otherwise, you're probably in for a lot of heartache.

Very sage advice, Web!
 

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headbang8 said:
"Faithful" = keeping your promises

I think that gay men who have negotiated monogamy in their relationship find infidelity just as unacceptable in a relationship as straight men or women would.

However, in my experience, I've found many more gay male couples negotiate committed relationships that don't necessarily involve complete monogamy. Many of them have other rules, though.
My partner is only upset if I hook up with another guy if he doesn't get to watch. Sometimes he even tries to find guys for me to fuck so he can watch.


Edit: And by upset I mean he'd say "Damn, I didn't get to see.... did you at least video tape?"
 

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Webster said:
He's said he's bisexual.
Believe him.
Many women seem to think that he'll be so happy, he'll never look at a man again.
Don't ever ever ever think that he will give up sex with men.
It has nothing to do with how wonderful you are.
It's a biological need.
If you can accept the fact that he'll be having sex with men, go for it.
Otherwise, you're probably in for a lot of heartache.

Hmm.

I have called myself bisexual in the past, and there's still a 1% left in my profile. Either I'm not and never was bisexual, or else I'm working from a different definition of "bisexual" than Webster's.

I've had sex with men... but don't anymore. Call it experimentation, call it a fetish, curiosity, circumstances, whatever. But it wasn't quite a "need", and I'm perfectly happy as I am now, and have few regrets about my past experiences.

So I guess my advice is... find out if he's bisexual like me, like Webster's definition, or in some other way. And then determine whether he's the monogamous type. I have a biological need to fuck lots of women, but I have the self control to restrict myself to the one I'm in a relationship with. In other words, talk to him.