D_Della Doubledees
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So... put it this way.. what is stopping this girl from doing the same thing when she is wet around some horny guy that knows how to break into her system. In the end, if I am keeping my horizons broadened, it wouldn't hurt me because i would have options to either give her another chance or move on, and moving on would be very easy.
I think you know the answer to that.
Maybe it's what you're afraid of... and maybe it's what's making you think in circles about this whole thing.
It's evident that if she ISN'T doing the same thing.... she's in love with you... or at least she's not letting other prospects in because she thinks you may be the 'catch' that those other men aren't. Do you see what I'm getting at here? She is falling for you. She is putting faith in the fact that you feel the same way about her.
Perhaps it scares you... maybe you have feelings for her, too... and are afraid to commit. The apple won't be dangling in front of your face for very long.
Perhaps you are used to women playing hard to get and like the thrill of the chase. You're the only one who can answer those questions. Just know that you're holding someone else's heart in your hands, and what you do will affect the way they trust and interact with people.
Being honest isn't easy. Sometimes it's very painful.... but very much the 'right' thing to do.
If you confront her and say that you want to keep seeing her but 'date other people' and she agrees... isn't that being more honest and still potentially getting what you want?
On the other hand, if you KNOW for sure that she WON'T go for that... then there's your answer. She wants a monogamous relationship, and you're not ready for one. It might be shitty to admit to her, but it's honest, and it's being a MAN to tell her so. In the end, you'll have no secrets to hide, no lies to tell, and nothing to prove, because you're just being who you are.
That's all anyone really wants. Someone who IS who they say they are.... right?
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