why do i still want bigger

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Gwarcock, May 26, 2009.

  1. Gwarcock

    Gwarcock Member

    Joined:
    Mar 7, 2009
    Messages:
    71
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    i dont know where this belongs but i guess it might fit here.

    according to some website survey im larger than 85% of all men but even so i wish i was bigger. i see porn stars or even some of the people here and i wish i was that large

    i told my GF i wished i was bigger and she got pissed at me... she can bearly stand sex with me as it is.
    she told me if it wasnt for my skills in bed she wouldnt keep having sex with me cuz its painful. and that if i was any bigger i she wouldnt have sex with me at all.

    so even so why do i want bigger its so annoying.
     
  2. andrexx

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 25, 2008
    Messages:
    209
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Minnesota
    Verified:
    Photo
    I think if you're bigger than 85% of all men, then you're probably fine. Why you would need a bigger cock is crazy.

    Also...if you're gonna start bragging about how big your cock is (in the fashion that you sorta did here), you should probably provide some proof...like a picture in the gallery. ;)
     
  3. Gwarcock

    Gwarcock Member

    Joined:
    Mar 7, 2009
    Messages:
    71
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    well i hate to sound like i was bragging but im sorry if i did

    and its 85% of that study but your right its crazy i want bigger

    but i still want it! i cant figure why im not happy with it.

    got to be a reason! got to be a way to make me stop.

    and as for pics thats a good idea im right on that lol
     
  4. Moez???

    Moez??? Active Member

    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2007
    Messages:
    689
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    111
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    SE Michigan
    I'm dealing with the same shit, except I'm not as big. I'm around 7-7.5 erect. Bigger than average, but I honestly wish I was twice as big.

    It's been that way for years, and I try to stop thinking like that because it's depressing, especially considering it probably will never happen.
     
  5. widenine

    widenine New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2007
    Messages:
    393
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    What's up with this burning desire to be longer and thicker. I dream of having an 11x8. Sounds like a joke, but it truly is not. About a week ago, I was handed a 20oz can of cold beer. I remember thinking "damn... this is it.... minus the mushroom head."
    Now the sad part of it all is that these distracting thoughts are a complete waste of time. Nothing is going to change except my attitude.
     
  6. D_Bob_Crotchitch

    D_Bob_Crotchitch New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 11, 2006
    Messages:
    8,498
    Likes Received:
    18
    It has to do with self-esteem and the need for our manliness to be affirmed. Who knows, could it have something to do with our dad not affirming us?
     
  7. Torque8

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2009
    Messages:
    572
    Albums:
    7
    Likes Received:
    47
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    SugarLand
    Verified:
    Photo
    Have to agree that wanting it bigger is annoying. I should be satisfied, especially with regard to satisfying my gf, I'm inclined to jelq daily and vacuum pump about every 3 or 4 days. After 2 or 3 pump sessions, primarily for girth, I swear: Never again, cause I hate the red discoloration and the swelling behind the glans if I don't sheath it so as to avoid the donut effect. Despite what I say, a couple of days will go by and I can't resist pumping again.
     
  8. Wish-4-8

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 29, 2008
    Messages:
    2,808
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    LA, California
    Its the male preoccupation with size. (from Titanic)
    Think of the TV show Home Imporvement. Everything has to be bigger, stronger, more powerful. Its a guy thing. Just becareful what you wish for.
     
  9. Wish-4-8

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 29, 2008
    Messages:
    2,808
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    LA, California
    Are you saying he needs a hug? :biggrin1:
     
  10. Snakebyte

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 11, 2005
    Messages:
    7,307
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    445
    Verified:
    Photo
    I think clamping would be the better choice for you then.
     
  11. Big Irish

    Big Irish Member

    Joined:
    Mar 31, 2006
    Messages:
    252
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    The land of Oz
    I'm in the same boat guys. I am 6.5, (7.5 if I push the ruler in, but its nowhere near "bone-pressed")but am 100 lbs over weight (i'm a former body builder so ppl think i'm 50lbs less than I am). I used be able to hold it in both hands and hane the head and an inch or two of shaft still showing! Instead of working out every day I'm doing pe. My GF is scared that I will have gains and then lose weight and be huge, all that does is make me smile inside. It shouldn't, but it does. I have always wanted to be in the 12+ club, no matter how impractical it may be. We have to look at our society though, I mean "bigger is better" and "size matters" are advertising slogans. It is in all of our subconcioius, whether we know it or not.
     
  12. psidom

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 7, 2006
    Messages:
    1,861
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    2
    i think it stems from a womans pussy.

    it dilates to give birth and collapses to keep from prolapse.

    womens idea of pleasure is somewhere in between.
    they want to dilate,but some dilate more than others.

    we want to be assured we can satisfy EVERY vagina in this world.
    some of which, could birth the terminator.
    in other words they are basically humanly impossible to feel,
    no man gets that big...even quercosomoeme.

    it is the continuing copulation of the opposing forces of the universe.
    it builds a tension that women and men often use to abuse eachother.

    noone likes to be abused.
     
  13. Gwarcock

    Gwarcock Member

    Joined:
    Mar 7, 2009
    Messages:
    71
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    haha thanks guys for the talk

    i could use a hug. haha
     
  14. jeepboi87

    jeepboi87 New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 27, 2009
    Messages:
    132
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    usa
    i would not want 2 be bigger...luv my dick as is
     
  15. widenine

    widenine New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2007
    Messages:
    393
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    I really hate to say it... But I don't believe the pussy has very much to do with it. In a sad sort of way, I think it stems from a need for self validation and higher self-esteem.
     
  16. quercusone

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 19, 2006
    Messages:
    1,151
    Albums:
    7
    Likes Received:
    2,226
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Dallas (TX, US)
    Verified:
    Photo
    I want bigger too.....go figure.
     
  17. B_Just Joe

    B_Just Joe New Member

    Joined:
    May 2, 2007
    Messages:
    401
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sunny Southern California, USA
    because as guys were told that having a huge dick is important. not just for women but because men are supposed to be huge.
     
  18. stiphphiphatumus

    Joined:
    Jun 30, 2004
    Messages:
    44
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    NE CT
    maybe it has to do with how you feel when you get erect. it seems the bigger it gets, the better it feels. if you could get even bigger, it would feel even better! (kinda like a drug, eh?!)
     
  19. D_Brecock Evileye

    D_Brecock Evileye New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2008
    Messages:
    783
    Likes Received:
    4
    We are like this about everything. We want more of everything. More money more love, more sex, more stuff. We think it will make us feel more full and wholle. It wont. Im not preaching, I am the same way.
     
  20. cason

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2007
    Messages:
    589
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    92
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    London
    Verified:
    Photo
    Men are defined by their peckers as soon as they are born. It's the first thing we meet as we pop into the world. Is there a penis? If we pass the penis test we get called male.
    So it's natural that we obsess about it for the rest of our lives.

    Then on top of that we later learn, (just when we're starting to worry about our bodies and about sex) that it can grant us lifetime membership to the sex god club, where men and women faint and cum simultaneously just on sight of it. But only if it touches our knees and can fill a bucket from 40 yards.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted