- GBB,
ClaireTalon said:In one sentence: I like confidence, but I dislike egomaniacs/assholes and guys who are so aloof and smug they think nobody can keep up with them.
I love the quiet, determined confidence. Guys bearing it attract me almost magically, I think it's wonderful to see someone so rested and settled. Definitely it's more attractive than the drama kings who cause a big racket around themselves wherever they go. My experience is that behind their masquerade, they aren't half the man they pretend to be, and there's definitely a lot of man needed to attract me. Not only between the legs.
However, the dislike comes again if the "quiet confidence" turns into this semi-autistic form, where guys become indifferent towards their surrounding.
To boil that down to an even simpler formula:
Self esteem is sexy.
For both men and women.