Why Do Men Hide Their Penis?

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For me, I’d say being raised in a conservative religious household where nudity was shameful and definitely frowned upon; then add being an introvert whose watched a ton of porn; then throw in me being on the “smaller side of the ruler” and the whole “penis size” insecurities...All that wrapped-up tends to cause me high anxiety when I’m expected to go nude.

Being one who is also all potatoes and no meat, there's anxiety being naked in lockerooms , etc. Guess the anxiety came with watching porn as well. Ever seen a porn star will a little dick.? I would say most of the guys showing off on the Internet are more than average or well past past average and are proud to show it off, at a urinal or lockerooms as well. Yes, if you hunt you can find little dicks, and they always seem to be labeled in a derogatory fashion. It all contributes to the general idea that size matters. While it may or may not be an issue in the bedroom, dick size definitely contributes to societies concept of masculinity. In the real estate business, a house needs to have "curb" appeal to sell. So does a dick, whether its in the locker room, at the urinal or dropping your drawers in the bedroom.. Little dicks usually don't have much curb appeal to most women or men. If you've got it faunt it, let everyone know that's it part of your Bio. As for some of us, we can continue to be envious, obsessed about size. Hell, you've got guys on this site with 8/9 inches that wished they were bigger, worrying if there is someone bigger than them. Guess, it's not only the little dicks that have an obsession with size. In our case, little guys just have to get over it and yes, apparently some do.
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It is kind on interesting that somewhere along development we are taught its wrong. I mean even as a kid if you are found naked the first thing you do is cup your hands over your penis. And in more extreme circumstance they find a pillow to hide their ass. We've seen it countless times in movies. It must be a societal thing we learn as children. I'm not sure its so much the cock but just nudity in the pelvic region. But on the other hand with women...they cover their breasts and nips more than their vagina. So I dont know. Good question.
 

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It is kind on interesting that somewhere along development we are taught its wrong. I mean even as a kid if you are found naked the first thing you do is cup your hands over your penis. And in more extreme circumstance they find a pillow to hide their ass. We've seen it countless times in movies. It must be a societal thing we learn as children. I'm not sure its so much the cock but just nudity in the pelvic region. But on the other hand with women...they cover their breasts and nips more than their vagina. So I dont know. Good question.

Have you seen the TV series "Blotched", where the plastic surgeons correct blotched plastic surgeries? They have no problem showing hanging breasts but censorship guidelines require them to blurr out the areola. They can show the whole tit except the nipple. . Absurd Apparently, only 38 double D's turn men on if the nipple is showing. Does anyone have a rational explanation for this?
 

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[QUOTEit's not only the little dicks that have an obsession with size. In our case, little guys just have to get over it and yes, apparently some do.
PRINCE TINYMEAT[/QUOTE]
JUST have to get over it? thats not gonna happen..delving into it is more of the right answer..there are so many psychological nuggets buried in the 'im not hung' ...'basket'
 
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Have you seen the TV series "Blotched", where the plastic surgeons correct blotched plastic surgeries? They have no problem showing hanging breasts but censorship guidelines require them to blurr out the areola. They can show the whole tit except the nipple. . Absurd Apparently, only 38 double D's turn men on if the nipple is showing. Does anyone have a rational explanation for this?

I have seen the show BOTCHED. I find it hilarious too they show the entire breast but blur the nip. Like its that nip that men go crazy for. And I'm still baffled in todays age they still blur men's genitals out. Have you seen season 3 of THE SINNER? There was a scene of an artist who does figure drawing paintings and they actually blurred the paintings of the men. I mean, seriously?!?! Our country is so f-ed up about nudity.
 
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Because it actually looks silly to most women (unless it's their guys). Unlike porn, when a man exposes himself (especially unannounced to a women) - they first laugh. Watch a girl at an all man strip club - they all laugh... Then cheer depending.
interesting, they dont laugh at a women's strip club...at least not in the movies
 

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I fully understand your situation I am in the exact same place. I have had men and women catch them looking at my crotch

I have been on the other side of that situation. I have been caught staring at crotches. Twice, it has resulted in the dick that captured my attention, going into my mouth. I hope one day to be passing through Knoxville @Iwanthead and I hope when you catch me staring at your crotch, you take advantage of the situation and feed me ;)
 

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Because dumb size queens are so rude and act like anything less than a 7 inch softy is way too small.

Being a guy can be hard because soft I am shamed and hard at a place like a gym I am shamed. Men should never feel that shamed or make another feel that shamed but unfortunately people are shit like that.
 

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Because dumb size queens are so rude and act like anything less than a 7 inch softy is way too small.

Being a guy can be hard because soft I am shamed and hard at a place like a gym I am shamed. Men should never feel that shamed or make another feel that shamed but unfortunately people are shit like that.
It is unfortunate. My flaccid penis can almost be tiny and yet when erect I've told that I'm big or good sized.
 

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Have you seen the TV series "Blotched", where the plastic surgeons correct blotched plastic surgeries? They have no problem showing hanging breasts but censorship guidelines require them to blurr out the areola. They can show the whole tit except the nipple. . Absurd Apparently, only 38 double D's turn men on if the nipple is showing. Does anyone have a rational explanation for this?
no but it's silly because guys have them too (some even have VERY large ones as well see 600 pound life on TLC) it's a Universal trait
 

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I cracked up when I saw this thread title. It's a question I've thought about a lot, whenever I see naked men cupping themselves. It's not protecting their dignity (IMHO), and it's certainly not because they've got something other guys don't have. Nobody present thinks to themselves "Oh, thank God he's cupping his dick and balls, otherwise I might see something." Nobody.

If it's accidental, quickly grab your shorts/towel/nearest available covering and cover up, or relax, realize we all know you've got a penis and balls and - literally - just let go. And if you're deliberately nude, why in the Hell are you covering yourself. That's just ...weird.

Yes, I'm being dismissive and - hopefully - a little humorous. But c'mon guys, literally every adult either has a dick or has seen one.

As Elsa sings in Frozen: Let it go.
 

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Author and political activist Eldridge Cleaver thought that men should not hide their penis. In the 1970's he launched a line of clothing, both formal and casual, designed to display the goods to various degrees. Like many fashion trends, it failed to take off.

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I wonder if we've forced men to be more discreet over the decades and now we're embarrassed by our bodies. I've watched documentaries how boys would be required to swim naked in school and YMCAs. This happened until the mid 1970s yet no one talks about it. I wonder if all that camaraderie unknowingly helped their confidence levels and maybe why younger generations aren't as confident. So many have hang ups about dick size cause you just dont see all that many different sizes and shapes anymore.
 

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Because sunburn sucks?
I once went to the nudist beach and did not wear enough sunscreen on the head. Worst idea ever, my corona turned into a circle of fire the following day and could barely touch my peen for a week.
 
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