Why do men like butts?
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I love the shape of a dancer's ass.
I don't like that many women don't have an ass... I see far too many women with flat or shapeless asses.
I don't like that many women don't have an ass... I see far too many women with flat or shapeless asses.
Because it is one of the things that women enhance greatly. For instance, have you ever seen a woman in loose fitting pants/clothes? ( for example Da Brat) Not very appealing to some, and most would look past her, but if she puts on skin tight jeans, now you see the "butt" it's enhanced and you want to let your fingers do the walking. In short, if women didn't enhance their bottoms/breasts (for the purpose of displaying them) most guys would not look at them at all. That's why arab women (some) choose to wear the burca.
So, ladies if you are being hit on too much, wear some loose baggy jeans/clothes or make yourself a dress out of a burlap and we guys will look the other way. We won't even try to look at your butt.
So, ladies if you are being hit on too much, wear some loose baggy jeans/clothes or make yourself a dress out of a burlap and we guys will look the other way. We won't even try to look at your butt.
I think it has a lot to do with associated experience. After having held onto, slapped against, spanked and just enjoyed the view of a nice butt during sex, I now think of that every time I see a nice butt.
MovingForward
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Funny its funny how some people like a different type of butt. I was having drinks with buddies and one guy pointed out this girl he thought had a nice butt. Honestly it was comical, becuase my nice butt and his nice butt were totally different.
because its a cover. we actually like the inner ear more, but thats more of a taboo.
D_Gunther Snotpole
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A big butt is open to quivering fun.
I think a well-formed voluptuous butt on a man or woman suggests that the first three chakras are open, meaning the person is open to the sexual instinct, can develop great energetic 'charge' during sex, and has few sexual hangups.
A fat butt doesn't say that at all, and neither do the thin, underslung butts that some people have.
I think a well-formed voluptuous butt on a man or woman suggests that the first three chakras are open, meaning the person is open to the sexual instinct, can develop great energetic 'charge' during sex, and has few sexual hangups.
A fat butt doesn't say that at all, and neither do the thin, underslung butts that some people have.
YES WE DO!! If anything I think women look at a Mans ass more than men look at womens. One of the first things I hear from my co workers at work are "DID YOU SEE HIS ASS, IT WAS SO CUTE"
Truthfully that is one of my favorite things to do is grab my husband ass while were kissing or snuggling in bed.
ANAL SEX!! YUK!!!uke:
Guess we know your straight,
hate to tell ya hun, Anal sex is just as good as vaginal for me and total fun. DON'T JUDGE SOMETHING YOU HAVEN'T TRIED.A good, firm, round and solid bum packed into speedos or low rise jeans is perfect on a guy for me. And for girls I love the same but more slender and a bit more......curvy I guess. But more so I am an arse man for blokes more than the birds. God I would kill to see Ben McKenzie ( Ryan Atwood from The OC ) in a pair of tight black speedos !
My bloke and my toyboy both say they love the "shockwaves" of my big bottom when they're doing me from behind. Aside from that, it's more sensual flesh to handle, isn't it. I love bottoms. And I cannot lie.
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Guess we know your straight,
Have you tried shooting yourself in the face? Don't judge it til you try.
Some people are obviously put of by anal sex and I can't blame, what ever floats your boat. I personally love giving anal sex yet I found many women aren't open enough to try it, it's all gravy though.
A women's got to have a nice bum otherwise I won't look twice, surprising really since most men go for tits but I don't really care about them.
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I have been a ass man all my life. There is just something about a very well shaped ass that makes me hard. I think of a hot ass no different than I think of all the other sexual parts of the body. If it's hot, it's hotttttt.
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I am so glad to read this thread, and so glad to read how many men prefer bums over boobs! (I have never personally understood the attraction to huge boobs, but then again, I have small ones so I've never had to worry about it.) As someone else mentioned, breasts developed in humans only as a visual 'echo' of the buttocks, when we began walking upright, instead of on all fours as primates do. This way, there could be a 'bum' visible from both sides! :tongue:
Since I have a bigger (rounder) bum than most, I am really pleased that there are more than a few men who will appreciate it. Thanks, guys! Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. :biggrin1:
Mens or Womens?
Womens? I like some 'meat on the bone'... (not huge ala bad videos) but something beter than a scrawny stair-master butt. I like something I can reach around and hold (or do other things to).
Mens? Love me a nice hairy furry butt (love when you see a bit of furry crack on a blue collar type guy. Ditto the scrawny gym freak ass.
To quote Spinal Tap
"More cushion for pushin"
I really can't say, but considering how primal it feels to look at a woman's butt, I'd guess it's something primal within us men. Who knows, maybe subconsciously we think the woman will be more fertile or doggystyle was the position for cavepeople and a nice round booty looked like it could take the pounding. Who knows. All I know is that I love to look and I hate to say, stare, b/c it's not a good thing when you get caught. *l* For me the bigger and more round the better. I'm with Sir Mix-a-lot, I like big butts. *l* Although, most butts turn me on, b/c they sooooo sexy. I especially love it when it shakes. Very hot and sexy.
