Why do men sometimes like to fuck women in the ass?

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  1. Adam70

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    In response to a current threat asking women if they like getting fucked in the ass, I was wondering why some men like doing it? From that threat it seems that most women don't like it. So, guys,

    ... why do you like fucking women in the ass?
     
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    Because it's much tighter around your dick, more hard rubbing... I've heard :wink:
     
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    'Cause guys are fascinated with any hot hole they can find.
     
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    'cause its taboo. (btw I have never done it - hence it's still very taboo to me)
     
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    I only do it if requested. Yes, it has been requested.
     
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    I dont enjoy fucking the ass but i LOVE to squirt a huge load on the browneye and watch it drip all the way down!!!
     
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    It really doesn't sound sexy if you use that word :wink::biggrin1:
     
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    How about the starfish? Have no idea where that came from.
     
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    I love it being called the Starfish :biggrin1:
     
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    I think it's funny, but where does that come from? I don't really see any relationship between a bumhole and the marine creature.
     
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    cause it can look like a starfish...:redface:
     
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    Mr. Pieterjoke you get a gold star for visual aids. :biggrin1:
     
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    that not what i think but to each their own..
     
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    Well maybe. The visual does help. It's a real stretch of the imagination. :tapedshut:

    That's a real good "starfish" anyway.
     
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    You are correct. Almost like the opening of a pussy along your entire cock. Well a loose pussy.

    :adam4::adam4:
     
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    Well, as I explained in my initial post in that thread, my wife wasn't keen on the idea initially. But over time, she's definitely arrived to where she enjoys anal sex. Sometimes she'll ask ME to fuck her there, without the thought having crossed my mind!

    It feels different. Don't get me wrong - I very much like vaginal sex with her. Vaginal sex can be rougher, faster, harder - anal, not so much (I have not idea how some guys/girls in porn can pound an ass that hard/fast and not hurt something). The sensation is entirely different, for both me AND her. The way my wife's vagina is when she's turned on, the first 2-3 inches or so are the tightest section. Well, sporting 8" wood like I do, and moving back and forth say, 3 to 4 inches (she likes it when I'm DEEP inside), guess what? The head of my cock isn't rubbing against the tightest portion.

    Sure, she can "squeeze" on it by doing Kegel-type contractions. But she can only do that for so long before 1) she gets tired of it and 2) it starts to hurt me sometimes. (Ever thrust all the way back and try to go back into a vagina that's just contracted completely? Ouch!) Anal is different in the respect that the tightness is there the entire length of my shaft (not that I can always go in all the way - depends on how turned on and relaxed she is). But it's a different kind of tightness. Ever had someone give you a great blow job, and someone who was, well, still really good at it, but not the same as the other person? Yeah, well, anal vs. vaginal is sort of like that - it's... different. But both good.

    Not to mention the fact that part of the reason I noticed my wife before we started dating was... her ass! She's got small breasts, and you know what? That's fine with me. I'm an ass man. I like her chest the way it is. So guess where I like to go every so often? In her ass. When the time is right, we both enjoy it, so we do that.

    Oh yes, one other thing: Sometimes it's nice to come inside her without worrying about getting her pregnant. We have two kids, don't want any more. I can come in her ass without a condom on (nice thing about a monogamous relationship!), but I have to wrap up when I'm in her vaginally. She lets me know when it's a "good time" to be in her back there, and you know, we've never had an issue with cleanliness.

    I don't have any less respect for those who don't want to do anal with a woman - to each his own. If you don't like it - hey, not a problem for me. I would just hope that those who don't enjoy it would respect those that do, and not think they're strange or weird or whatever. It's something different to enjoy, provided both partners agree and you perform basic hygiene before and after.
     
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    I don't know... I've only had anal twice with one girl and it wasn't that great, I had a hard time getting it all in and then she'd hit me any time I moved-- even ridiculously slow. It was her idea and all she did was complain... probably why I didn't like it, but I still find it a huge turn on for some reason. Even just fingering her ass makes my cock throb like mad.

    So, really, I don't know if I like anal anywhere near as much as I like the thought of anal.
     
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    I think the thought of anal is probably the big driver with most men. Can I ask the straight guys - if you enjoy anal sex why not do it with a gay or Bi guy? I hate anal sex and would never have it again. :)
     
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    1) because there is also a pussy attached to that body

    2) it doesn't have hair around the anus (or not much)

    3) fucking a man is different then fucking a woman.
     
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    Not sure - bums don't really do it for me :S