Why do men sometimes like to fuck women in the ass?

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  1. DiabloBoi

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    There can be many reasons, depending on the guy;

    - They like a tight hole
    - They like the empowerment
    - They like to keep their "bitches" humble
    - They like it because it feels wrong to them
    - They like it because its the one place their partner DOESN'T want them to put their dick
    - They like it because they are really gay/bi but in the closet, and can't bring themselves to fuck a man so they settle for the anus of a woman which is the closest thing they are prepared to do, for now
    - They like it simply because they simply happen to prefer anal sex to vaginal or oral sex

    The list goes on...
     
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    It's fun, it's naughty, it feels good and because it's a power trip.
     
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    because we like the empowerment and the squeezing...
     
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    I only enjoy anal if a girl requests I do it and pleads for it. That means that she's done it enough to stretch the anus to the point it doesn't hurt and it feels pleasureable. Gay and bi guys stretch their asses and that's why they enjoy anal. If she doesn't like anal and she tried it once and decides she never wants to do it again, it's no biggie because I like the way the vagina stimulates the cock more than the ass as well. The inside of a vagina has ridges that stimulates the penis as it holds it. The vagina also has it's own lube. With anal, I have to rely on artificial lube.
    You would want to make sex the most pleasureable experience for the woman as well so she would want to come back for more. If anal hurts, I wouldn't want to turn her off from having sex with me by forcing anal on her or she would have trust issues saying, "Ouch, wrong hole you asshole!".
     
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    ... because I haven't found a woman who could take my girth in the ass yet. In actuality, their probably not very experienced doing it in the first place. I hope I find one, one day.
     
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    That's akin to asking a perfectly straight female, "If you like getting eaten out so much, why not just have a woman do it?"

    My answer would be similar to a response to that: I'm straight, and since it's not a member of the opposite sex, I subsequently have no interest in doing that with someone of the same sex.

    Besides, in certain positions, I can still see my wife's vagina. I think it's pretty well established that men are largely visual creatures, so how exactly do you expect me to be turned on by seeing a dude's cock there, when I'm turned on by a pussy? Sure, I'm in her ass, but that doesn't mean I want to see a cock just below/above where I am (depending the position); I'm turned on by the sight of my wife's pussy.

    Not only that, I may be an "ass man," but that doesn't mean I'm turned on by EVERY ass on the planet. I'm turned on by FEMALE asses - well, nicely shaped ones, anyway. Why would I be turned on by having my dick in a man's ass, then?

    I guess I don't understand why someone would think that just because the orifice is the same, that the turn on would therefore be identical for a straight guy...? :confused:
     
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    Peterjoke - an arse is an arse at the end of the day we all shit and fart out of it - therefore not much difference. And women's arseholes also have hair around them naturally - just like we have naturally hairy pussies - well unless you are a child anyway.

    Perhaps if you are averse to shagging men's arse because it wouldn't let you feel so dominant and your partner would be as strong as you and able to fend you off if needed??? Could be partly why.
    Anyways - there's no way I'd risk having an arse like a wizard's sleeve!
     
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    Mgtihlah - going back to your straightness and aversion to men sexually, if that is the case naturally you are not sexually attracted to men because you cannot reproduce with them. A woman's arse is not a sexual organ but a digestive excretory one - therefore why would you want to have sex with it. Naturally there is no difference between you shagging a woman's arse or a man's.
    As for being licked by a woman - yes it really would make no difference - they same process and the same end product to be honest.

    Tell me do you enjoy having dildos inserted into your arse? I can assure you you'd probably enjoy it more than your wife does.
     
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    Perhaps it's because he's not GAY and prefers to engage in sexual activity with women and not men.

    No, that would just be too obvious wouldn't it.
     
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    Well, taking this argument to it's logical conclusion, then you personally only have sex for procreation, and never for any other reason, and don't touch any genitalia on a man except for that procreative purpose? If that's the case, I feel badly for you, because there's a lot of erogenous zones that don't have a damn thing to do with procreation, but sure as hell turn a lot of people on.

    Because if you even so much as like having your ears nibbled, neck kissed, small of your back massaged, or any other part of your anatomy that is not SPECIFICALLY related to sexual activity as it relates to procreation of the species touched during sexual activity, then obviously you have absolutely no reason whatsoever to want to have any of those non-sexual organs touch / licked / etc., because "they're not meant for that activity."

    Yes? Or no?
     
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    Don't worry, he spent so much effort trying to sound logical that he forgot to not sound dumb.

    "Ass=/=genitals ergo men=women"
    ...Seriously?
     
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    I like it but it's certainly far from a universal fantasy for blokes! And I wouldn't whine/cajole and stamp my feet if she wasn't into it. "sigh, if you must..." is no turn-on!!

    I've been in on a discussion that turned to the topic and most of the women said they didn't like it. The one woman who very emphatically DID like it seemed to get a quietly horrified reaction from the other women like she was "letting the side down" or something. Weird.
     
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    You're all horrible at this; very, very horrible indeed.
     
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    Errr... the view would be a lot different... curvy hips good, hairy muscly arse not good (from my POV). Ta.


    Ahem, your mouth's full of cutting and mashing teeth, saliva to start the digestive process, and muscles designed to pull whatever's in your mouth down to your stomach to be digested. I trust if you willingly took a bloke's cock in your mouth and he's kind of expecting to have sex with said orifice, none of the above would happen!!! :eek:


    And by your reasoning it also wouldn't make much difference if it was a bloke's mouth or a woman's mouth giving the BJ... I guess not from a purely sensation viewpoint, but you've already dismissed the argument that a woman who likes getting oral might not want it from another woman so the rest of you go figure!
     
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    I bet you an asian man would have less hair on his arse than mine!!
    Seriously guys - how many of you have ever had a dildo up your arse?? I think you should all have to take it on a regular basis for what you put your partners through!
     
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    Oh mgtilah - the whole point is that you say you are only attracted to women, but you like to carry out sexual practices which would physically be equally as satisfying done with a man - all the above would be satisfying done by a man or woman. This says to me that the pleasure you gain from anal sex is actually psychological rather than physical. put a blindfold on you and you would have no idea if a man or woman's mouth was around your cock, or if you were shagging a man or woman's arse.

    For the record most of my male gay friends wax or shave their anuses - exactly as many women do - sorry if that's spoilt another one of your fantasies about women not having body hair!!! What do you think the 'Brazilian and Hollywood wax' does - takes the hair off everywhere, fanny, arse, bikini line.

    Strictlyavg - that depends on whether he's tried to stuff his cock up my arse first - if he has a bit of chewing teeth action might well show him how painful it is!!!!
     
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    Turnabout is fair play?
     
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    Nobody I know likes to do anything under threat!:17::dunno:
     
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    I think you should have to read all your posts so you have to experience what you put us through. :rolleyes:

    You honestly don't think a woman can request AND enjoy it, despite several chiming in here stating as much?
     
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