Why do men sometimes like to fuck women in the ass?

[StrictlyAvg]

Oh mgtilah - the whole point is that you say you are only attracted to women, but you like to carry out sexual practices which would physically be equally as satisfying done with a man - all the above would be satisfying done by a man or woman. This says to me that the pleasure you gain from anal sex is actually psychological rather than physical. put a blindfold on you and you would have no idea if a man or woman's mouth was around your cock, or if you were shagging a man or woman's arse.

Most erotic contact outside of dick/pussy fucking could be covered by this mantle. Yet a minority indulge in/are wired for same sex contact. What was the point again?

sorry if that's spoilt another one of your fantasies about women not having body hair!!! What do you think the 'Brazilian and Hollywood wax' does - takes the hair off everywhere, fanny, arse, bikini line.

Personally I've posted many times in women/body hair threads and seek out porn that shows women with. I wouldn't reject a woman who prefers herself smooth but my fantasies are for women with not without

Strictlyavg - that depends on whether he's tried to stuff his cock up my arse first - if he has a bit of chewing teeth action might well show him how painful it is!!!!

If he's done something to you that you didn't want doing to you it's both morally and legally wrong!!!!!!! I don't think anyone would disagree with that.

 

[StrictlyAvg]

Seriously guys - how many of you have ever had a dildo up your arse?? I think you should all have to take it on a regular basis for what you put your partners through!

You make out like it would be some sort of purgatory punishment! Earlier in the thread it was "ah yeah but blokes have a kind of g-spot up their arse so of course they'd enjoy it"

Haven't found a female partner yet that I think would be up for a spot of pegging; I live in hope. :biggrin1:

 

[deleted356736]

I've had anal a few times with a few women. I prefer vaginal sex: it easier, it's self-lubricating and ready after a few minutes, it's snug for my size, sometimes it's tight for my size. Anal is different: it's generally tighter still. But the non-physical aspects appeal to me, especially a woman who's prepared to share very intimate part of her body with me, that's a big turn-on.

 

[Love-it]

After years of not having intercourse with my wife we finally figured out that I was to large for her. She started dilating her vagina on a regular basis but we still weren't having any luck with penetration. One morning she came into our bed and asked very sweetly offered me her ass, how could I refuse? What I didn't know then was that when she started dilating her vagina she had also started dilating her ass.

Our fist anal sex was a bit awkward and we had to go slow and use lots of lube, but she was able to take me and we both enjoyed penetration and penetrating.

Anal sex isn't always successful for us but we are more successful with anal than vaginal penetration.

Why do I like anal sex with my wife? Because it's sex with my wife!

 

[the_reverend]

i can't offer much on the topic itself since i've never done it and have no desire to...but the typo in the OP really kind of freaked me out. "the current threat of anal sex..." is there going to be a Geraldo special on it or something?

as for strutter2...i'm gonna start selling troll food if you guys insist on feeding him.

 

[Enid]

Anyways - there's no way I'd risk having an arse like a wizard's sleeve!

huh? (what's a wizard's sleeve?)

Don't worry, he spent so much effort trying to sound logical that he forgot to not sound dumb.

as for strutter2...i'm gonna start selling troll food if you guys insist on feeding him.

I think strutter2 is a woman.

"the current threat of anal sex..."

I think the OP made a typo, and meant to say/type "In response to a current thread [sic] asking women if they like getting fucked in the ass, I was wondering why some men like doing it?"

 

[strutter2]

as for strutter2...i'm gonna start selling troll food if you guys insist on feeding him.

I am indeed a woman - why the above comment. Are my contributions too near the truth for your liking - having to face up to the fact that anal sex isn't in fact craved by all women, and that by doing it you ar every likely to be causing the woman a lot of pain and possible future problems? Nice - I'll keep posting however as it's obviously having the desired effect of challenging your porn-formed idea of what is normal and acceptable by everyone in the bedroom.

Wizardsleeve - is self explanatory - Huge and baggy at the bottom!
A midwife colleague has recently had a woman in labour whose partner was constantly at her anally - it weakened the perineum so much that when she gave birth it tore and her baby started to come out of her arse. Have fun visualising that one boys.

 

[strutter2]

Besides STD's, what r the dangers of anal sex (ps with a...

Women Don't Like Anal Sex, and It's Bad for Them

Risk Factors for Abnormal Anal Cytology in Young Heterosexual Women -- Moscicki et al. 8 (2): 173 -- Cancer Epidemiology Biomarkers & Prevention (anal cancer)

http://corporateresourcecouncil.org/white_papers/Health_Risks.pdf (Pg 3-4 in particular - this paper talks about gay sex however there is little physiological difference between anal sex with a man and with a woman - apart from the fact that a man has a G-spot up there and a woman doesn't - i.e, men gain pleasure from it, most women don't)

The Straight Dope: What are the risks of heterosexual anal sex?

What are the risks of heterosexual anal sex? | Tampa | News | Straight Dope

Just some thoughts on the risks of anal sex - and no a nice dose of Peritonitis or anal cancer really doesn't float my boat.

 

[strutter2]

Kotch - please can you show me where I have categorically stated that I believe no woman likes it and every woman is pushed into it?

I merely stated that most women don't like it and most women that indulge feel that they 'should' do it rather than they 'want' to do it.

Some of the articles above show this, as well as my own personal experience. If not why do most prostitutes - who can make between double and three times as much from anal services than vaginal ones refuse to offer this as a service. The ones who do are usually desperate for money and would do anything to get it. I worked as an escort for a number of years, with many different women from many different backgrounds and nationalities. My comments are not just driven by my experiences of anal sex but by hundreds if not thousands of other women that I have known and worked with over the years.
You've just got to listen to Gene Simmon's ode to anal sex (a man who has slept with over 5,000 women) with the words 'she didn't want to do it, but she did it anyway.'
You see women are too focussed on making other people happy - it's time more of us stood up and spoke our minds!
The reason I and other posters are getting such reactionary responses - telling us we are wrong and we just haven't done it right (yeah obviously something wrong with us isn't there) - is because our comments have brought these men crashing our of their comfortable little pornlands and back to reality. It makes them have to consider the wellbeing of the person they are with over and above their own pleasure - and they don't like that. Period

 

[deleted356736]

The three women I had anal sex with wanted me to do it with them. It turned them on, regardless of my size. They truly wanted me to do it to them! They were excited, one was my first ejaculation, she sprayed female come over me.

They were the hottest sex sessions I've ever had, well beyond mere anal sex. It was my partner's excitment at being penetrated by me there that made the differences. As for me, anal sex was and always will be something I can take or leave, unless the opportunity presents itself willingly, or the opportunity is actively desired by my partner.

 

[deleted356736]

I have a PS to my posting: one of my partners was an escort, and we had anal sex free of charge. She liked me and she liked anal with the right man. I do admit that this would be rare for an escort, but not unique for an expensive high-class one.

I truly don't know how many women like anal sex, but I know that more partners would have with me had I not been so girthy. I asked my wife, she wasn't interested. When she opened up sexually I asked her again, but still she's not interested. I don't pursue it because it wouldn't please her, and I don't pursue it because my 6" girth is going to be hard for anyone who's not 100% into it.

So I'm rather open on the concept: some women adore it, some don't mind and some aren't interested. It's often up to us men to ask the question, and a good man knows that 'no' means 'no', no more arguments or attempted coercion.

 

[sleepiboi]

I am going to say that because you are having sex with someone and you see the "forbidden hole" , you eventually want to explore that territory. I know I would lol

 

[StrictlyAvg]

Besides STD's, what r the dangers of anal sex (ps with a...

Women Don't Like Anal Sex, and It's Bad for Them

Risk Factors for Abnormal Anal Cytology in Young Heterosexual Women -- Moscicki et al. 8 (2): 173 -- Cancer Epidemiology Biomarkers & Prevention (anal cancer)

http://corporateresourcecouncil.org/white_papers/Health_Risks.pdf (Pg 3-4 in particular - this paper talks about gay sex however there is little physiological difference between anal sex with a man and with a woman - apart from the fact that a man has a G-spot up there and a woman doesn't - i.e, men gain pleasure from it, most women don't) You claim to have gay friends, and you use THIS article! The fact that you're quoting this clearly biased, politically driven article to back your case is unbelievable. E-mail the link or print it out and show it to your gay friends please.

The Straight Dope: What are the risks of heterosexual anal sex?

What are the risks of heterosexual anal sex? | Tampa | News | Straight Dope

Just some thoughts on the risks of anal sex - and no a nice dose of Peritonitis or anal cancer really doesn't float my boat.

Ah yes, LPSG posting rule no 109 - quoting dubious "pseudo-scientific" articles with a clear bias to back up an emotive issue. See 511 anti circ threads that go in much the same direction and rouse high emotion without any resolution.

Listen to Kotch. You're coming across as an evangelist for a cause that really isn't a big issue for the posters on LPSG, who tend to have clarity about what they do and don't like - and stand up and be counted if they like something that wouldn't be dinner table conversation in their real lives. The arguments you've used in this thread expose what your response really is about - an emotive one. It'd be nice if you admitted it. Sadly, I suppose you'll fit right in with a lot of the posters on LPSG now I think about it. :frown1:

 

[StrictlyAvg]

huh? (what's a wizard's sleeve?)

:biggrin1: urban dictionary is your friend...

 

[B_bigenuff4u]

Never have had the pleasure.

 

[helgaleena]

Love-it, you say an important thing. This is Large Penis Support Group. Not every woman has a vagina sufficiently deep for certain persons to fully enter. Stretching can only accomplish so much. You and your wife love one another enough to want to LOVE one another.

Sometimes male-female anal is the answer. That is a tube not a pocket. It also helps to learn enjoyment of other sensations than full penetration.

Self can orgasm from the right stimulus to my hands. Leave it to your imagination what that might be I do.

 

[GraceAnne]

Hey everyone. I'm a woman and my straight boyfriend wants me to use a dildo strap and use it to fuck him in the ass.. Should I be worried that he's not straight and he's a gay?

 

[TexanStar]

Hey everyone. I'm a woman and my straight boyfriend wants me to use a dildo strap and use it to fuck him in the ass.. Should I be worried that he's not straight and he's a gay?

No, straight men have asses too.

Just worry if he asks if he can bring a man home to fuck him in the ass.

 

[LutherCorps]

In response to a current threat asking women if they like getting fucked in the ass, I was wondering why some men like doing it? From that threat it seems that most women don't like it. So, guys,

... why do you like fucking women in the ass?

I assume any male who is into anal sex even if it with a female is at least bisexual. Why would a straight man want to fuck a asshole when a pussy is right there? I never got the point of it.

 

[LutherCorps]

Hey everyone. I'm a woman and my straight boyfriend wants me to use a dildo strap and use it to fuck him in the ass.. Should I be worried that he's not straight and he's a gay?

Lol yes you should.