Why Do Most Guys Compare Cocks When They Get A Chance?

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what is behind it...

Competition?
Build up of self esteem?
Worries about measuring up?
Darvin/survival of semen?
Fun?

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I've commented about this in another thread. I think a lot of it is simple, natural curiosity. Even if you know a guy very well over many years unless you've stolen a quick look when peeing together or seen them naked your not going to know what size they are, only guessing.same goes for someone you might just see on the stree. For those into womens breasts the evidence is pretty clear for guys unless you want to get arrested the penis and its secrets remain hidden.
 

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It's their manhood and instinctively is a way to judge who may be best suited to keep the species going. That is the primal root reason. I think as we have evloved, it's just naturally one of the ways to assess the other dude. You check out his face too right? Maybe build and utlimately if you interact with him, his demeanor? (just my thoughts on this).
 
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Interesting question. I can remember back to when just starting school with new friends & all kinds of innocent games were played in the bathroom like "fireman" We would all watch each other piss in those giant sized urinals, some trouffs in all of the catholic schools. I guess we started there...comparing...
 
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I personally like to see other mens co ks in order to see how i stack up next to them. Also i like to see them wearing underwear first to see their package/ buldge.
I have a small package so im often the shortest one. Oh well. I just enjoy wearing underwear only or be naked around men. I love to see what other men look like in the cock department
 

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I am in awe of cocks bigger than mine. It turns me on to see them in pictures and porn. It is what drove me to engage in bi activity with men... I wanted to see them in real life!

When I get together with a guy I always want to compare their bigger cock to mine. I like to put our fully erect cocks side by side and verbally praise their size over mine. It excites me to be in the presence of a big, thick cock, and relish the opportunity to service it.

Its funny that when I do the comparison, and lavish on the big cock praise, they usually try to not make me feel bad by telling me my cock is still okay. They try to add something pisitive about mine, despite there being the obvious size disparity right in front of us!
 

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I’ve been comparing and looking since I was a kid. Anytime I’m at a urinal and get a chance to peak I do. That was the only time when I was really young to see what a cock looked like. Mostly grown men who don’t hide it as much, so I got a good anatomy lesson, hahaha. Staring at my teachers bulges, watching their pants bunch up and create that big mound always made me curious. I love seeing big dicks stuffed in briefs and then seeing them unleashed wether in the locker room, urinal, changing rooms, wherever
 
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I think there is a natural curiosity that exists with lots of guys about seeing what their friends and even some strangers are blessed with. This includes straight guys. I can't say I've ever been in a situation where a small group all whipped them out to compare, that just hasn't been my experience.

When I got comfortable being naked around some of my good friends in college and in situations like the gym or the spa as an adult I noticed guys would glance fairly often, some more noticeable than others. I would glance myself but reached the conclusion that most guys are pretty average. I've seen some that were large and some that were smaller but really until one is seen erect it's not exactly a fair comparison.
 

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what is behind it...

Competition?
Build up of self esteem?
Worries about measuring up?
Darvin/survival of semen?
Fun?

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curiosity, I would say. I mean, we all know we got IT, but how does ones compare to others? Yeah, there might be some element as to whether or not it's a good size compared to another guy's cock. As I've heard someone say before, it's not about the size of the ship but the waves it can make (or something to that effect).
 

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Another thing that just occurred to me is the intimacy of it all. In the normal everyday life of a guy, the penis is not something we go around displaying and sharing all day long to others 24/7. By that I mean we're not walking around with our groin area exposed for all to see. If you're working in an industry (escort, porn, etc) where this is the norm, then that's different - but again, I don't think these guys are going out to public places letting everyone see everything.
 

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I’ve been comparing and looking since I was a kid. Anytime I’m at a urinal and get a chance to peak I do. That was the only time when I was really young to see what a cock looked like. Mostly grown men who don’t hide it as much, so I got a good anatomy lesson, hahaha. Staring at my teachers bulges, watching their pants bunch up and create that big mound always made me curious. I love seeing big dicks stuffed in briefs and then seeing them unleashed wether in the locker room, urinal, changing rooms, wherever

me too. I love the situation like this at urinal(where guys in tight pants unleash their junk to pee) locker room (where guys drop their tight undies)

i dont mind it being soft. I just love the natural way of the situation ;)
 
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It's just natural curiosity. Guys check each other out all the time in the locker room and at the urinal. It's no big deal. I think it's a normal part of being a guy. Step up to the urinal, take a quick glance to see what the other guy is working with. Same thing in the locker room.
 

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I have caught guys looking all the time at a urinal and I have checked out other guys too. I think a lot of guys wonder what other dudes are packing. In the locker room I see guys checking each other out all of the time too.
 
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I feel like it's just a man thing. It's something we just can't help. Nothing homoerotic about it per say but just one of those things that we do to see how we rack and stack amongst the pack I guess. I mean this mentality has been around for so long I don't think I know a difference at this point. Especially being active with sports my entire life.