Why do older men become bi-curious

[bi2]

Sounds like a great arrangement for both of you.

It is. I mean we only get to hook up about once a month, so naturally each time its an enjoyable pleasurable experience we share. Im sure that would definitely change if it was regular or if we were like living together.

There has only been two times that I can recall there was an issue, one time I was really tired and exhausted, but I was still keen, however giving him the advanced notice, Im basically only up for a quick fuck for him. The other was when I had a birthday dinner to attend and we literally only had a 15 minute window of opportunity, lol. Again we were both keen and he understood, it was like a blo and go scenario. I cant begin to tell you how embarrassed and hot I felt when I could feel his cum slowly trickle its way out of my hole during dinner, lol. Both times fortunately for me, he was "ready" to blow his load the moment I arrived, which made it easy for both of us.

 

[deleted24521041]

Thankfully my wife and I have a great sex life. That's why I said I probably won't ever act on my urges.
I can certainly understand someone in a sexless marriage wanting to have their needs filled.

And that's sort of my situation. Wife fought a battle with cancer but it did a number on her and left us with sex being a painful proposition even with lots of lube/foreplay. Unfortunately, oral isn't really a good substitute due to our mismatch in sizes....

 

[Zhugezen]

One because you realise that time is running out to try different or crazy things in life. If not "now", its "never".

Two, because once you get over 50, the chances of picking up a 'perfect 10' female in her prime, rapidly reduces (in my 40s I was picking up females in their 20s those days are ending). But as an older guy you can get the ego boost of guys in great shape and in their 20s showing interest in you and getting really turned on by a 'sexy older guy'.

Also, some older females who are past their sexual peak, can sometimes act like they are doing sexual acts as a favour rather than because they crave it as much as you do. Not so with guys.

Kindly, where does one find these hot 20 year old guys looking for daddies?…

 

[bi2]

Kindly, where does one find these hot 20 year old guys looking for daddies?…

Im in my 20s, I found my fuckbuddy on silverdaddies.

 

[Charlie1976]

Bi is a solution for many older guys because of sexual status in their long term relationships. They still love their partners, but due to age, health,... their sexual needs aren't able to be sated. A 'bro mate' without the personal strings, is a healthy outlet. I have always told my buds this isn't about 'wrecking your marriage,...as otherwise they love their wives or partners! It's taking caring care of a basic need, so the pressure is taken off your partner.

 

[bijockfl]

Look, older men get saggy balls. Saggy balls sway & swing in all directions. Maybe their sexual orientation goes the same way as their balls - it aint like it'd be the first time a fella thought with his dick rather than his head.

Is this crazy... yes, crazier than some shit I've read on this thread... nope. Just tryin to bring a light note to those who got really worked up by this issue.

Glad I've solved the issue for everyone!

Love you bud..

 

[synicalgomez]

In so many ways, you start to realize that time is running out and yet curiosity, killed the cat eventually anyway. Luckily times it also changed and you realize that no one really cares nearly as much as you thought they did about who you love or play with and finally you also just don’t give a shit anymore and need to know and feel.

I think this is the crux of it. 20% of Gen Z now identifies as LGBTQ, compared to 3% of Boomers Source. Preferences aren't changing, society's acceptance is. So older people are finally able to express and test their sexual range.

 

[Jjsurp99]

Bi is a solution for many older guys because of sexual status in their long term relationships. They still love their partners, but due to age, health,... their sexual needs aren't able to be sated. A 'bro mate' without the personal strings, is a healthy outlet. I have always told my buds this isn't about 'wrecking your marriage,...as otherwise they love their wives or partners! It's taking caring care of a basic need, so the pressure is taken off your partner.

I agree however to many that still cheating in their eyes

 

[FrankieGuile]

I am a Mid-fifties mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thing Is this a common phenomenon.

Perhaps it’s the appeal of the forbidden fruit. That being a tasty Cock.

"Why Do Older Men Become Bi-Curious?" They don't. You've made a presumption they do. There is no evidence, aside from your insistence, that they do. Question answered.

 

[WilliamG]

"Why Do Older Men Become Bi-Curious?" They don't. You've made a presumption they do. There is no evidence, aside from your insistence, that they do. Question answered.

Perhaps a better question would have been: "Do some some older men become bi-curious?" And maybe a poll? I know that question is still very ambiguous. But it opens the door to the conversation - which is why we are here, no? Even then, we could say that the fact the answers are coming from folks here on a sex based forum, we're not getting a true representation. Speaking only for myself... I became bi-curious later in life.

 

[Anime2]

Bi is a solution for many older guys because of sexual status in their long term relationships. They still love their partners, but due to age, health,... their sexual needs aren't able to be sated. A 'bro mate' without the personal strings, is a healthy outlet. I have always told my buds this isn't about 'wrecking your marriage,...as otherwise they love their wives or partners! It's taking caring care of a basic need, so the pressure is taken off your partner.

To be honest this even happens when boys are young just it's never spoken about. So many boys have done stuff with other boys then grow up get married and have children. I'm not claiming every boy is secretly gay definitely not but a lot more teenagers experiment with each other than society likes to believe.

 

[Scott8361]

My bi curiosity grew out of my cock size insecurity and an interest and envy of bigger cocks.

It evolved into me finding i no longer wanted to have to worry about my dick needing to please anyone. My role is to be a submissive servant to other guy's cocks! I know my place is to surrender my body to other men, usually with bigger, thicker cocks, and to pleasure them in any way possible.

I really don't want to have the pressure of performing intercourse with a woman... worried if my dick will get or stay hard, or be big enough to provide a fulfilling fuck. I love making other men feel good about their cocks.

 

[smoothy6]

Partly that older men have discovered the truth about women: dishonest, ( fake orgasms anyone ? ) not loyal, uninterested in sex, some women simply don't like men, many women feel they are superior to men, false accusations ( MeToo movement ).....the biggest could be MeToo......it's very risky to be with a woman who is not your wife, but safer with a man

 

[FrankieGuile]

Perhaps a better question would have been: "Do some some older men become bi-curious?" And maybe a poll? I know that question is still very ambiguous. But it opens the door to the conversation - which is why we are here, no? Even then, we could say that the fact the answers are coming from folks here on a sex based forum, we're not getting a true representation. Speaking only for myself... I became bi-curious later in life.

Agreed. At least it would have been an honest question free from bias and such questions engender better discussion, even though as you correctly imply, that discussion in this forum will not be representative of society at large.

 

[jimcord]

My bi curiosity grew out of my cock size insecurity and an interest and envy of bigger cocks.

It evolved into me finding i no longer wanted to have to worry about my dick needing to please anyone. My role is to be a submissive servant to other guy's cocks! I know my place is to surrender my body to other men, usually with bigger, thicker cocks, and to pleasure them in any way possible.

I really don't want to have the pressure of performing intercourse with a woman... worried if my dick will get or stay hard, or be big enough to provide a fulfilling fuck. I love making other men feel good about their cocks.

I think it says a lot of how you understand yourself and how you fit into the world. Glad to see you are happy with your decision.

 

[Anime2]

Partly that older men have discovered the truth about women: dishonest, ( fake orgasms anyone ? ) not loyal, uninterested in sex, some women simply don't like men, many women feel they are superior to men, false accusations ( MeToo movement ).....the biggest could be MeToo......it's very risky to be with a woman who is not your wife, but safer with a man

Absolute facts just we've been conditioned to not say it because we're not allowed to criticize women about anything. But they can hate men and scream it from the roof tops

 

[FrankieGuile]

My bi curiosity grew out of my cock size insecurity and an interest and envy of bigger cocks.

It evolved into me finding i no longer wanted to have to worry about my dick needing to please anyone. My role is to be a submissive servant to other guy's cocks! I know my place is to surrender my body to other men, usually with bigger, thicker cocks, and to pleasure them in any way possible.

I really don't want to have the pressure of performing intercourse with a woman... worried if my dick will get or stay hard, or be big enough to provide a fulfilling fuck. I love making other men feel good about their cocks.

Do you mean to say you weren't "born that way?" Bisexuality is learned? Is that true for other sexual orientations?

 

[merc41]

Simple lack of attention from wives and girl friend's

 

[FrankieGuile]

Simple lack of attention from wives and girl friend's

So it's because the men are lousy lovers and bore their wives or girlfriends into inattention?

 

[Jjsurp99]

So it's because the men are lousy lovers and bore their wives or girlfriends into inattention?

I will say a lot of bi guys aren't bi just horny. If they stop watching porn and wife gives them sex I bet they wouldn't touch a man