rickygNOLA
Superior Member
i just like a man that takes care of himself. that's all. you're looking pretty good, too.
I don't think they are necessarily a better choice overall. But assuming someone is ugly on the inside just because they are good looking on the outside is also wrong. Maybe you've just had some bad luck.[/quote]But then is it fair to want muscles all the time? Are we that made-to-order?I'm not sure what you are asking. If someone likes a partner with muscles, then they can try to get that.
Do you think that because one is muscular that that muscle guy is a better choice overall? Maybe God camouflages the ugly with pretty packaging to fool peeps. I have dated muscle guys. They feel good but I wouldn't put all the cards on them just yet. :smile:
But people want what they want. And when they get what they want...it isn't what you really wanted. Strange.
I'm not attracted to most muscle guys because alot of them are cocky and they're assholes (except OC MuscleJock :smile.....some muscle guys just want other muscle guys....I don't mind a skinny guy, or a guy with a little meat on his bones.
Couldn't agree more......they make my dick hardtake a roll in the sack with one
you won't go back
I'm not overly muscular, but I'm certainly not skinny. I'm just over 6' and weight between 205 and 210. I'm pretty much OK with the way I look (I do need to be careful about what I eat.) I think my frame looks better beefed up a bit.
I have a buddy that is 6'3" and probably about 180. He gets a ton of attention from women. They really seem to like the long lean look. Some people think that guys who work out are too into themselves and stuck-up.
People may say it doesn't matter, but in person, a guy with bigger muscles just grabs your attention, especially in person. Sometimes what looks overly big in a picture looks nice in real life when you are standing next to them and see them in 3 dimensions. I think it is a subconscious reaction. It's still somewhat politically incorrect to admit that looks matter a lot (especially for women to admit it). And well balanced muscles don't look bad. It's only when someone becomes out of proportion that he becomes less attractive.
I made comments be4 on this thread but was drowned out by the muscle bunnies. Anyway here is what I feel about this subject. I'm posting two photos below. One is of a handsome guy here on lpsg. The other is of some muscle bunny from West Hollywood all dressed up like a retard. HONESTLY, boys, who's the sexiest guy???
Thanks for all the responses to my original post. It's an interesting discussion to me. Just for the record I think that Jovial has one of the best builds on LPSG. He's definitely muscular but not so big that he looks weird. So while I don't find giant muscles attractive, I don't think that muscles generally look bad.
Well, this isn't really a fair fight because the second guy is dressed up like an idiot and the first guy is just naturally hot. I'm not even taking sides in this. I just think it is odd to question the legitimacy of someone's turn-ons. Personally, I like young guys, older guys, skinny twinks, muscle guys, black guys, indian guys, Chinese guys, Native Americans, white guys, etc (you get the point) as long as the guys looks confident, comfortable with himself, and is pulling off whatever look he is going for. I prefer big dicks. I'm not so into bears or the daddy look. But that's just me. And on this sight one sees people talking about how hot Zack Effron is or some other pretty boy as often as we see people pushing some musle hunk. I just don't see what the controversy is.
I guess when I originally posted this, I was trying to make a distinction between what is attractive and what is "over the top". It's like some girls have so much silicon injected in their breasts, it becomes ridiculous. Their tits are so big they look laughable. I:biggrin1:
I guess when I originally posted this, I was trying to make a distinction between what is attractive and what is "over the top". It's like some girls have so much silicon injected in their breasts, it becomes ridiculous. Their tits are so big they look laughable. I guess I'd say the same thing about huge muscled males. Their flesh looks like metal or plastic, and their heads are smaller than their arms. I'm just wondering at what point does this "attraction" become absurd? Maybe never? And also why are overly muscular guys considered the norm? They seem to be on this site. I also think it has to do with pseudo-masculinity or hyper-masculinity. Most guys have enough self-confidence not to have to overcompensate by getting gigantic. Check out the shots below for a hoot. :biggrin1: