if you look around the internet or even ask someone what they think is average big small etc., just general penis size questions, many of them (IN MY EXPERIENCE) answer you with specific lengths but many offer no or limited girth information ('the thicker the better" etc.). if it's a general consensus that girth is more important, why do so many either not mention it or give very vague details about their preference etc. when they often can give actual length measurements (even though those may just be unreliable estimates)