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One thing I have always wondered about is how important it is for some to call sex 'naughty'. It's like all bodily functions, including elimination, are to be deplored. Thus sexual desire is 'spiced' by being somehow sinful inherently.

It puzzles me. But it's so widespread I generally just roll my eyes and go on thinking of it as beautiful and healthy and leading to mystic union with divinity. They don't know what they are missing.
 

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It is always okay for men to be sexual beings. Girls who give in are dirty. Especially someone's sister!

Just another sexist fuckwit who has excluded himself from the jello pool.

I kinda like it when they make themselves known like this. It saves time.
 
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that's like asking why do gay people get offended when straight people say they are sickos...
I mean duh
why are people upset that other people would pass judgement on them, I don't know how can it be?!
 

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how is saying "no, i wouldn't be interested in you shitting on my chest while you jerk off on a cabbage patch doll" be judgmental? ya just stating you have conflicting tastes.

saying "eewwwww!!! get away from me, you coprophilic doll fucker!!" see.. that one is judgmental.

like the viagra thread. no, i wouldn't be interested in recreational humping using the blue bomber. unless a person intended to involve me in the blue steel hump fest i really don't care or condemn. to each his/her pervie own.

if ya feel that a difference of opinion is a personal assault ya got bigger issues than a kink.
 

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Three parts to this equation.

There's the part of live and let live. If it's not for you, fine, it's my thing and let me do my thing.

There's the judgmental part. If it's not your thing, fine, but don't call me stupid, disturbed, sick, gross or weird. Don't try making yourself feel better by putting me down and climbing the pedestal you so enjoy.

Then, there's the hypocritical part. If you think you're better than me because you believe your lifestyle cleaner and holier, at the very least live that life. When people pass judgement and don't live up to their own standards for themselves, I don't see the point in taking them seriously. These are the people that piss me off and don't deserve my time.

Not sure if I answered your question, Dolf, but just thought I'd vent.
 

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You know the old adage.....what happens between consenting partners? However, most people will sit in judgment of other people "no matter" what the issue is.......and feel they are always right and that their opinion is the ONLY one that is correct and matters.

This applies to sex, politics, religion, cars, food, the environment, education, job or employment, your attire, etc., etc., so take it with a grain of salt. As long as we have minds and the ability to express ourselves through words, deeds, or body language.....WE WILL, no matter what the other person thinks.
 

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other people having distaste for aspects of their sex lives?

the viagra thread put this in mind, but it's not the first time it's struck me as odd. in that thread fans of viagra seem quite angry that others think it's lame to use it if you don't need it. i once dated a guy who was still mortally offended that some woman on an internet site said she wasn't into cut cocks

now, it's not like the people who think it's dumb/ridiculous/gross are planning to change the law and have you executed for it. it's just that they're saying, 'ew! i wouldn't!!'

from my POV, i'm a bisexual, sadistic masochist with a fetish for knives, bondage and corsets. the world is full of people who blanch at the thought of my cunt electrodes. other than ruling them out as sexual partners, it doesn't impact my life. though i may enjoy a good bicker over the sanity/morality of bdsm, my feelings aren't all hurted if you tell me you'd never try that freaky shit.

so...why does it bother some people so much?
i have to agree with im would consider my as a very open minded person and there nothing wrong with what you enjoy doing in fact i always wanted to that freaky shit hopefully one day ill get to!!! to each his or her own!!!



i hope i made some kind of sense in posting this.