I wish bone-pressed wasn't maligned so much. In my case, I'm in pretty good shape, but also have a significant fat-pad (about 1.25 inches)... however, my fat pad is easily compressible, so for me at least, all but perhaps 0.25" of the bone-pressed erect length is insertable into a vagina. Now visually, I look much shorter than my bone-pressed erect length because all you can see if the non-bone-pressed length. So if she's driven more by how it looks than how it feels, I'm out of luck. But maybe she'll notice my muscles and my smile and my desire to please her in many ways instead 
Again, talking about myself, my girth increases from just below the head to the base. There are all those arguments about what girth to report: mid-shaft erect girth, base erect girth, biggest girth anywhere along the shaft, biggest girth including the head, smallest girth measured along the shaft? I wish it was uniformly thick, but my girth characteristics do have a nice advantage... it's easier for insertion and then when I'm all the way in, it's a nice bonus for her if she enjoys that stretch.
