Why do people look down on men who share their partners???

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I think a lot of it comes from some of the ridiculous narratives in porn about the man not being able to satisfy his woman so he has another guy do... this is just wrong...

I love sharing my partners with friends, acquaintances, her exes, her friends and occasionally strangers. I think doing this is the ultimate in masculinity and shows how confident a man is... I know she will always come back to me, that’s why I let her fuck other guys. The other turn on is that I get to kind of be her pimp. I own her and she does whatever I say.

I’d encourage all guys to at least bring up the idea to your lady. I’ve found that most sexually active women have at least some interest in sleeping with other men.
 
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I don't look down on people who are into that, but it's not my gig at all. I've been promiscuous in the past and greatly enjoy sex. Many of my female friends are the same. I don't know any who want to be shared like an object. Small sample size and all for sure, but "most sexually active women" might be a bit of a stretch :p

Even on here, the amount of women who are into that kind of lifestyle seems to be in the minority.

Enjoy your kink, though.
 

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I don't look down on people who are into that, but it's not my gig at all. I've been promiscuous in the past and greatly enjoy sex. Many of my female friends are the same. I don't know any who want to be shared like an object. Small sample size and all for sure, but "most sexually active women" might be a bit of a stretch :p

Even on here, the amount of women who are into that kind of lifestyle seems to be in the minority.

Enjoy your kink, though.

You’re right, most sexually active women would include all the married women who get boned by their hubby... I meant women who are single and dating and really like having sex...

Sharing a partner is an act of trust... I can understand not being comfortable with it, but most women I know find it exciting and very rewarding. If your needs are met and you are happy just keep it up.
 
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You’re right, most sexually active women would include all the married women who get boned by their hubby... I meant women who are single and dating and really like having sex...

Sharing a partner is an act of trust... I can understand not being comfortable with it, but most women I know find it exciting and very rewarding. If your needs are met and you are happy just keep it up.

Even when I was single and had multiple friends with benefits (which is something a lot of my female friends have also done) it still wasn't something I was at all interested in, being "shared" by one of the people I was fucking.

If that's your kink and lifestyle, it's not surprising your social circle has people who are into that included in it. I stand by my "most sexually active women" might be a bit of a stretch. I could say "most people I know are into fisting, flogging, needles shoved through their flesh, etc" because I hang out with kinky people, but I know that's not actually interests shared by most of humanity :p
 
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Even when I was single and had multiple friends with benefits (which is something a lot of my female friends have also done) it still wasn't something I was at all interested in, being "shared" by one of the people I was fucking.

If that's your kink and lifestyle, it's not surprising your social circle has people who are into that included in it. I stand by my ""most sexually active women" might be a bit of a stretch. I could say "most people I know are into fisting, flogging, needles shoved through their flesh, etc" because I hang out with kinky people, but I know that's not actually interests shared by most of humanity :p

Yikes, you are freakier than me... it’s funny because most of the women I’ve shared are people I’ve dated, but are now fwb... most of them are fairly conservative actually... you could say I have a dating “type” well educated, cute, brunette, chubby, and very affectionate...
 

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So if you aren’t into being shared what are your kinks?

Well, I enjoy some of the things Fade mentioned, I particularly enjoy glass. I like the sound it makes when it shatters, I like the way it feels... I like the way it looks.

I also have a thing for pegging, but have never actually done it. All things discussed before :)
 

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Well, I enjoy some of the things Fade mentioned, I particularly enjoy glass. I like the sound it makes when it shatters, I like the way it feels... I like the way it looks.

I also have a thing for pegging, but have never actually done it. All things discussed before :)

Tongues and pinky finger are the only things allowed in my bunghole... do you like being cut by glass...
 

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I can enjoy group sex. The only person sharing me, is me. I don't like the implications of this phrasing. Doesn't work for me at all.

That’s cool, we all different... most of the girls I’ve shared liked the idea of being my prized possession and being desired by other men... I compartmentilize this though... I’ve always had very loving relationships with my partners... it’s not as if I had them act like my slave all the time... in fact after I let another guy have her we’d usually shower together and I’d wash her thoroughly, then make her a drink, foot massage, lots of cuddles etc.
 
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I can't speak for others, but I know whenever I hear of men sharing their wives or SOs it isn't so much I look down upon them, it's more I look up to the men whose wives and SOs share them, because it seems more apropos to my personal situation(my libido far outweighs my wifes).
 

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I can't speak for others, but I know whenever I hear of men sharing their wives or SOs it isn't so much I look down upon them, it's more I look up to the men whose wives and SOs share them, because it seems more apropos to my personal situation(my libido far outweighs my wifes).

I’m not married and have never even lived with a romantic partner. I just like having lots of horny female friends who are DTF.
 

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I think the answer is the same for any subject where people look down on others for something they do in their personal private time. Regardless of the hobby or kink being downlooked, it is just, like their opinion, man. Worth less than their stool sample.

My girl Q is somewhat obsessed with huge cocks and a different sort of fucking than what she and I have together. There is nothing wrong with it. If both are ok with the sharing/being shared, then that is as far as the philosophy needs to be pondered. I know that what I give her is different but still the best. No harm is being done and it just means a slightly wilder sex life than it would have otherwise been.
 
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I think a lot of it comes from some of the ridiculous narratives in porn about the man not being able to satisfy his woman so he has another guy do... this is just wrong...

I love sharing my partners with friends, acquaintances, her exes, her friends and occasionally strangers. I think doing this is the ultimate in masculinity and shows how confident a man is... I know she will always come back to me, that’s why I let her fuck other guys. The other turn on is that I get to kind of be her pimp. I own her and she does whatever I say.

I’d encourage all guys to at least bring up the idea to your lady. I’ve found that most sexually active women have at least some interest in sleeping with other men.

I don't know people who look down on sharing partners any more than they judge any other aspects of relationships. What sort of judgment are you seeing/experiencing?
 
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