I don't think it's a big deal. My gf is Japanese, and I am white; and we are happy. I get a lot of flak from some people at work. Why do people care so much?!
Yeah I'd hate on you in silence as well bc... I have keen eye for Asian women, and from my exp, they don't have a keen eye for anyone that's not white, least in some east coast cities. It's nothing personal about you per se, it's about Asian women thinking that anyone that's not white ain't right. I've experienced many a stare from whites/Asians/AAs (esp) when I was going out with numerous Asian women. Esp the big 3: JP/Chin/Kor... The "others" PI's, Camb, Viet, Filo etc... they seem much more accepting, but still a little weary.
I dunno, it just bothers me that most of my unfulfilled dating experiences, and seeing/hearing other's stories of being openly discriminated against bc I'm/they are not white are all too common. Even when the white guy is obviously a lame vs myself; I'm tallish, RIPPED in-shape, very attractive, Ivy League educated etc. Nope they'd rather go out with a doofus, sloth looking hipster with greasy hair, no signs of physical exercise at all lol. Or wanna-be coolster, nerdster types. Other than that, I LOVE interracial relationships. :biggrin1: