D_Sal_Manilla
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or dont want to have children till they are older or never, get judged so harshly by others.
my friend thinks it stupid that i want to start a family at 35-40yrs old and enjoy my youth. he plans on having children soon and he is 22yrs old. been with only one woman.
i'll give you my humble opinion.
your friend seems like he does not know what he is getting himself into. its very difficult having children at an early age. everything you do has to be for the child. if you want to go out friday night with your friends and you can't find a babysitter than you have to stay with your kid. So a lot of stress comes with having a child. you begin to feel like your missing out on some fun. now remember i said it was difficult not that it wasn't rewarding.
now with you, you might be waiting a little too long. 30-35 seems like the perfect window in my opinion because now you really are an adult. now like some people stated before that the older you wait the harder it will be but it can happen.
i just view it this way. i rather have my child when I'm thirty, experienced, and have a stable job that i know will support both me and my child. i want to give my child a better life than i ever had and that means I need a good job. when your in your 20's not everything is certain and you might have a hard time providing things your child.
but thats just in my opinion.
I'm the type of person that would want my kid to go to the best private schools and universities.