Why do some people try to stop other's from getting a piercing/tattoo?

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  1. BirdinMo

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    Ok so I am getting my nipple pierced tomorrow, if everything go's as planed. I told my dad and he is cool with it.:cool: I told my mom and she is not crazy about it but know's I will do it any way.:smile: I told my best friend and she is on my case about how I will hate it, how ugly they are and stupid it is. Then she tell's me flat out "You are not getting it done because if you do I will never speak to you again." I told her to mind her own business that it was not her getting pierced so she has no right to tell me to not get it. I do not understand why people "forbid" or "demand" other's from getting a body modifacation! (sp?) It's not going on/in there body so am I so wrong for thinking that they need to keep there feeling's to themselves? The only reason I told her in fact is because she has a habit of pinching my nipple's when we first get togather. I wanted her to know she would not be alloud to do so after tomorrow.
     
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    Sounds like pinching your nipples is the closest she has every gotten to having sex with you.. and now you are taking that away...
     
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    Probably because she has a negative stereotype of what people with piercing/tattoo are and she doesn't want you to be like "them". :rolleyes2: I say spite her and go for it. Show her that not everyone fits into a stereotype, and isnt as she perceives them to be
     
  4. BirdinMo

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    What I thought I had typed but in fact had not is that she herself has a tattoo AND her ear's pierced in like 3 different spot's each!
     
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    :wtf1: Dude that is not an acceptable salutation! She needs to stop that shit immediately anyhow. I have gay male friends and I find that a hug and/or a kiss on the cheek is all that is necessary when saying hello. :cool:
     
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    my dad was FURIOUS when i got my tongue pierced when i was 15.

    my best friend's mom (her family was like my 2nd family) spanked me really HARD and told me it was stupid and ugly, but it doesn't matter what anyone else says. its my body. i will do what i want with it. :tongue:

    if your friend is going to stop talking to you over that, then she's a bitch. it just seems odd to me that people are so against tattoos and piercings. its nothing new. people have been getting stuff done for years. :rolleyes:
     
  7. BirdinMo

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    Oh nay-nay you should of seen my dad when I got my tongue pierced at 14! Holy shit I thought my life was going to end that night. I stayed with friend's for about 6 day's to let him cool off but it did not help any. I took it out for him when I was 15 so he would get off my case about it. I plan on getting it re-done though. lol.
     
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    And I chuckled when I read "it's my body I'll do what I want" I just had to stand up and push my hip's to one side with my left hand on my hip my right hand snaping in the air and yell IT'S MY BODY, I DO WHAT I WANT!
     
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    My girlfriend said she maybe wanted to get a tattoo down the road. I didn't tell her not to do it but I said a girl with a tattoo is a HUGE turnoff for me. After that she said she wouldn't do it anyway because she doesn't like pain.
     
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    I know you don't know me, but please don't get pierced.






    JK. LOL.
     
  11. BirdinMo

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    LOL. I was soready to tell you to stick it, then I read the JK. LOL. And I think I might of peed my pant's a little.
     
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    I LOVE pain! OMG! Is there anything better then putting yourself in pain? It is so good to feel! I like pain as much as I like to masterbait, and that's alot!
     
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    I'm trying to judge weather that is sarcasm or if you are serious, and I must say, I am at a loss, lol.
     
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    it fucks up your nipple thats why lol.. seriously ive never seen a normal looking nipple after being peirced. maybe its just not my thing.. im pretty vanilla
     
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    No sarcasm here, I love pain!
     
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    Get it done! I have 19 piercings, my parents know about 18. They aren't pleased, but they can joke about it. Piercings can be removed.

    Just watch that an infection doesn't come about. For good measure I would walk around the house without a shirt to rub it in her face.
     
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    Jesus tapdancing Christ...is it possible for you to go one day without passing judgment on propriety and dictating that everyone in the world conform to your rigid ideas of decorum? It was moderately amusing for a while, but now it's just tiresome.

    Do you even recognize the enormous irony of your response to the OP?

    @BirdinMo - You handled your friend exactly the right way by telling her to piss off. She has no claim to control your decisions, particularly those you make about your own body. She sounds like a bit of a control freak, and those types always react irrationally whenever you act in a manner that breaks the mold of their ideal. Yes, they're irritating to those of us who perfer to experiment for ourselves...but pondering the why behind their behavior is a path to fruitless frustrations. Leave that to her shrink.
     
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    I enjoy seeing them on hot studs, but the individuals who don't approve, that I personally know, seem to regard it as something strictly for the unterklassen
     
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    I say do whatever you desire, just beware sometimes shit happens.
     
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    See, I think that people protest tattoos because of how permanent they are. Piercings come and go, but a tattoo is forever.
     
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