why do some straight guys get turned on by shemales?

Discussion in 'Ask a Straight Man' started by theyaom, Jun 22, 2013.

  1. theyaom

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    I have a friend who happens to like dressing up like a shemale (wears make up, high heels, long hair), and when we go out, he always get hit on by straight men (is not like my friend can fool anyone into thinking he's a woman, my friend looks like at tranny by just looking at him)

    but i dont get it.... many straight men want him to suck their dicks.... and some straight men even want to fuck him.

    as a regular gay guy, straight men dont even look at him.... have him dress up like a woman and suddenly a lot of straight men are ok with this guy sucking their cocks.

    is it a common fettish in straight men to have a tranny suck them?
     
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    Its because they aren't straight. These questions are getting ridiculous.
     
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    No its not common for STARIGHT men.... STRAIGHT men dont want anything to do with anothrr guys penis..
     
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    But what about a girl's penis?

    Are you suggesting, for example, that this is the type of website that gay men would frequent? Futanaria
     
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    A "woman's" penis is as oxymoronic as a bird's gills or an air plane's perascope.
     
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    I'm asking you seriously... if you visit that website I linked, do you imagine that the majority of their subscribers are straight or gay?

    Do you think it appeals to men who are sexually attracted to women? Or do you think it appeals to men who are sexually attracted to men?
     
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    I think it appeals to men who are bi. Some can admit they're bi...and some cant. I respect guys who can just be who they are and admit they're bi. But as far as STRAIGHT guys.. we dont like penis.
     
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    You're dodging the question.

    That website... of women parading around with pretend penises and pretending to cum with them.

    Do you think men who are exclusively sexually attracted to other men could get off on that?

    Do you think men who are exclusively sexually attracted to women could get off on that?

    It's clear that you don't want to admit that straight guys could like that. But I'm pretty sure that if I linked a bondage website or a foot fetish website or a smoking fetish website or any other bit of kink, you'd have no problem thinking that straight guys could enjoy it.

    If a guy is watching a woman tied up and getting spanked, that's straight to you, but a guy watching a woman with a fake penis you feel that it's gay. Sexual orientation to you is about preference for penises -vs- vaginas, not preferences for male -vs- female.

    I'd wager that if a husband and wife decided to get kinky, and have the wife take him from behind with a strapon, you'd consider the guy to be bi or closeted gay (even though he's enjoying a sexual relationship with another woman who identifies as a woman and they're just playing around with roles).
     
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  9. NC_BBC

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    You did A LOT of ignorant assuming in that post. I don't feel a need to "dodge" any questions. Trust me, I don't bite my tongue here. Do you realize there's a difference between your original post, and the post with that futanari link in it? There's a difference between a crossdressing guy and women wearing strap-ons. You do know that right? One is still a woman....the other isn't. Dress a pig like a woman....and it'd still be beastiality. Straight guys have no interest in another man's penis, even if it's hidden under a dress.

    But I'll answer your questions anyway....

    1) I'm not gay, so I can't speak for gay men. But if I had to guess I'd say a majority of gay men wouldn't find that link very useful, or exciting. It's still a woman....just wearing a strap-on. If a guy likes guys.... strapping a FAKE penis on a woman won't make them like the woman. She still has tits, and all the other things gay men don't find attractive.

    2) Straight men MAY find that type of thing attractive. Why? Because it's still a woman. I personally believe that there's nothing a MAN and WOMAN can do together that can be considered "gay". To do so would completely negate the words gay or homosexual altogether.

    3) You'd lose that wager. Click here, read post #82.
     
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    That's not the complete discussion. It's just a starting point. I know where I'm going with this, but whether you ultimately agree or disagree with my logic, it requires some back and forth.

    So where we're at now, it's fair to say that the examples I gave above are straight. That a guy who gets off on women parading around with fake penises is still engaging in straight (albeit kinky) behavior because it's still a guy who's attracted to women.

    ...

    So next question would be about your feelings about transexuals. I don't mean cross-dressing per se, but rather people who are born in a way that people would easily describe physically as male or female, but feel that there is a mismatch between their physical body and how they identify themselves internally and start taking steps to transition to the other gender.

    If a person born with male genitalia self identifies as female, and goes through hormone therapy and surgery to adopt a female physique, do you consider that person to be male, or do you consider them to be female? If you consider them to be female, at what point in that transition process do you consider them to be female (are pre-op FTM transexuals male to you, and post-op ones are female?) If you consider them to be male, what about them makes you feel that way?
     
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    There's this video of Cora (German pornstar, RIP) having sex with a shemale. AWESOME video. As far as why, I have no idea.
     
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    As many people on this forum will tell you, I have an "old fashion" way of thinking. A male will always be a male to me. Getting surgery done doesn't change that....for me. I couldn't be with a man, no matter how he dresses himself up.
     
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    When you say "A male will always be a male to me.", how do you define what's male?

    Is it based in your genes? Someone who's born X-Y is male to you regardless?

    How about someone with complete androgen insensitivity syndrome? If you were dating a woman who looked like this: File:Complete androgen insensitivity syndrome.jpg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia and she started having abdominal pain and they found that she had undescended testes up in there rather than ovaries, would you turn her away because although she's outwardly physically female (without any surgical or hormonal intervention), but she's genetically XY?

    What about someone born with indeterminate gender? Someone like √Črika Coimbra - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia who was born with male & female genitalia... are they all male to you?

    Trying to understand where you draw the lines when you decide that "a male will always be a male" to you, because nature certainly doesn't seem as black and white as your "old fashioned" outlook on life.
     
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    i'd say that I am pretty straight, but I think shemales are hot. well some of them are
     
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    OK... a man is a man. I don't like men. Men (to me) are human beings with penises. A woman is a woman. Women (to me) are human beings who have vaginas. Everything in between is of no interest...to me. I would be turned off by a "woman" with a penis...whether it was there naturally (in the case of hermaphroditic people) or it was surgically placed there.

    As far as indeterminate genders....I like women who are easily identified as women. I don't want to guess, and I don't want any surprises. If that makes me shallow or "closed minded" somehow then I'll just accept that.

    Apparently there are different variations of "100% straight"....but the variation I identify with doesn't want anything to do with another man, or anything that resembles one. You may get other answers from the "100% straight" variation that still fool around with guys and proclaim themselves straight.
     
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    Yes, indeed. For the third time, I humbly request the moderators to put up the definition of straight in bold on top of the forum.
     
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    They can't really do that because "straight" is such an ambiguous term for some people. :dunno:
     
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    Mistabobdobalina-

    In the case of the Futanaria girls, some of it may simply be due to guys wanting to see pretty little girls playing with ridiculously oversized dicks, regardless of what they're attached to, and the only dicks that size are obviously going to be plastic. In other words, there aren't enough "O.G. Mudbones" around to meet the demand, and with the quality of prosthetics these Futanaria people seem to be capable of, there might be a good market for straight porn where males are actually wearing them (just a guess).

    Take Care
     
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    Search in video > futanari

    ^--- Look at the vids in that link featuring Japanese actresses. Are you saying those are ridiculously oversized dicks (they're around 6 inches give or take)?

    I only linked Futanaria as an extreme example of the genre.
     
  20. NC_BBC

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    SO what's your hypothesis on the matter? Cause we keep telling you what we and straight men think and you keep responding with "but blah blah blah"...so what's your take on the matter?