why do some straight men lose there lose their inhibitions at the bar? I have notice when iam at a bar alone and been drinking some men start talking to me older men over 50 some under 40 but mostly older men start talking to me and start getting friendly like getting close to me. I just wanted to know if thats normal. But what i mean by friendly is getting to close to me and buying me drinks and putting there hang on me. And the thing this is not a gay bar.