So I admit I would classify myself as having a learning disability on the aspire/autistic spectrum it has been very hardcore me to establish sexual relationships with women. What I have read is that it is the norm with people who come across men classify them as socially awkward and women call them "creeps and losers"(again this is what I have read in documented articles) I guess the thing I hate most is I believe "socially awkward" is just a learning disability and people who look down on others are discriminant towards them. A man shouldn't be classified as a loser or creep because he has a learning disability and has trouble flirting or making that connection rapport with a woman when he approaches her. I really feel bad for women who think that way towards men. To me I personally feel like saying well maybe your first born will have the same issue and they can come to you and be all upset when people(not just men) think that they are weird creepy etc...
I should have read the OP's post instead of just Wally's.
Social awkwardness due to a learning disability on the autistic spectrum might be very different from the possibly more frequent awkwardness caused by high social anxiety.
The former case might have the wherewithal for social interaction, but just be "making mistakes" or not noticing cues, etc. The latter might be suffering from the results of emotional traumas in development or some more inherent deficit that causes anxiety. He (or she too) might know what to do or say socially, but is just too nervous in a social situation to "pull it off."
However, again, most people, women and men included, are attracted to people with high status. Obviously, a person who has a lot of difficulty functioning socially is not going to be perceived as having high status, ie. winners. Social success is what determines status, but there is a market for a certain degree of low status as I broached in prior posts.
Thus, the OP's awkwardness possibly could be cured via intensive learning. In the case of high anxiety, psychological treatment to reduce the anxiety would probably be necessary.