I don't know. I consider myself 100% straight... and I have had gay men hit on me. Personally, I think it's a compliment. Means I'm good looking in someone's eyes.
My partner says that she likes it when anyone hits on me... it validates her attraction to me.
I don't think EVERY gay man is hitting on me. That sounds to me like homophobic paranoia.
1. Why do straight guys always think gay guys are coming on to them?
Answer. They don't. In my case, I can fairly say that I devote approximately zero percent of my cogitation time to the matter.
2. Why do straight guys sometimes think gay guys are coming on to them?
Answer. Because on rare occasions, to casual observation they seem to be doing just that.
3. Do straight guys give a monkey's patoot if gay guys are coming on to them?
Answer. Maybe sometimes, but most likely not.
Does that help?
i've had gay guys come on to me
i've had gay guys not come on to me
i've never had a gay guy come on me
the short answer is whenever you find yourself typing "always", "never" and the like, you can be assured you're working in the world of absolutes, a world destined for disillusionment
It's only the insecure ones that do.Not all straight guys think gay guys are coming on to them. You make it sound like we walk around paranoid a man might fancy us.
If someone is different you might be a bit precautious in your judgements and thus misjudge there intentions. Sometimes it's justified by the fact that a gay guy can fancy a straight man and come on to them.
But when it actually does happen, you are secure enough to say "thanks, but no thanks..." instead of getting a group of buds to beat the shit out of him. Thanks for that!I don't know. I consider myself 100% straight... and I have had gay men hit on me. Personally, I think it's a compliment. Means I'm good looking in someone's eyes.
Thanks for that, too, big D. Do you ever wonder how sad life is, in general, for those so insecure that they freak out so easily?1. Why do straight guys always think gay guys are coming on to them?
Answer. They don't. In my case, I can fairly say that I devote approximately zero percent of my cogitation time to the matter.
And most of the ones I've ever met who have that particular world view REALLY have nothing to worry about.1. Because they think that they are attractive to both (if either) of the sexes.
Does that help?